Tips Jun 20, 2020 22:28

I’m an A-type, but judging from the profile of the person who sent me an offer, he seems to be looking for an adult relationship (intimate).

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I assume he knew I was an A-type when he contacted me, so is there any point in making an offer to someone whose preferred relationship type doesn’t match what you’re looking for?
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Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
I’m a lost 60-something. I haven’t checked the Q&A box in a while, but when I happened to take a look, I saw my name… Wait, me—an expert at winning over Type A women…??? Since when? lol Just to avoid any misunderstanding, I’m seeing Type A women as Type A women. The other day, I took a Type A woman who wanted to travel together on a trip—and she was definitely Type A… lol As for the answer to the question, perhaps it’s more like a side dish to the sashimi, alongside relationships with women of other types? That’s basically how it is in my case.汗
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. I’m not looking for a dinner-only relationship, but I once made an offer out of curiosity to an A-type woman who had made semi-regular appearances on TV. She gave off an unmistakable “this is never going anywhere” vibe, so we’ve only had meals together.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members. You sound like the type who enjoys taking on an impregnable fortress and eventually bringing it down. I imagine that’s right up your alley, dear Lost Sixty-Something (one of the respondents). As someone who’s very much an “adult relationship” type, when I hear, “Let’s just have dinner today and part ways on good, wholesome terms!” it feels like— Huh? What the heck is that supposed to mean?! —that’s what I’m muttering to myself… Oh, it’s Father’s Day today, isn’t it? Papa’s Day? > Dear Lost Sixty-Something♪ > It’s been a while~ (*^^*) > Perhaps I misunderstood you… > My apologies. m(_ _)m
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I’m Rin, a female member. Ugh… Is he one of those weirdly overconfident older guys…? Like, “I’m popular in real life too, you know”—that kind of guy? Let’s ask the staff first.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. This sounds like a case where the woman complained after the date. I’ve seen feedback like this many times: “Even though I chose Relationship Type A, he kept bringing up an adult relationship from the very beginning of dinner, so I couldn’t enjoy the meal. He continued asking me afterward, too. If this is how it works, then what’s the point of having different relationship types? It was the worst date ever.” Maybe that’s simply the kind of person he is. He probably assumes that even if someone chooses Type A, she’ll agree if he keeps pressuring her. I think it would be a good idea to contact the staff and ask them to confirm something along the lines of: “Looking at his profile, it seems like he’s looking for an adult relationship. I chose Type A because I want to enjoy dinner, so could you please confirm that he won’t ask me to pursue an adult relationship on the first date?” There’s a good chance the offer will be canceled, but this may help you avoid an unpleasant experience. Another option is to go on the date expecting that this will probably happen, then have dinner only and leave. That would require quite a bit of mental strength, though.
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