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Jun 20, 2020 09:35
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Some profiles include things that don’t really need to be mentioned, though…
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I’m Rin, a female member.
I’m not sure what they meant by “something that didn’t need to be included,” but perhaps the staff member who wrote it was trying to convey something?
Meg,
It’s been a while. Your calm response is reassuring.
Meg
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m sure the staff post these with the hope that they’ll help members exchange useful information and, ideally, lead to a match that benefits both parties.
I don’t think they’d post anything meaningless.
> Rin ♪
Long time no see~
I’m doing well, thanks to you (*^^*)
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Management Planning Office here as well.
As for why:
It seems to come down to little more than whether a staff member happens to think, “I should write something about this person.”
As far as I know, there hasn’t been any clear rule about whether or not to include notes.
People who stand out to the staff—whether they’re particularly nice or have a poor reputation—tend to get something written about them. Those who don’t stand out simply get left as they are.
That said, even when a man has a poor reputation, I don’t think we explicitly write that in the special notes. It’s not meant to disparage the men.
When we send an offer involving a man with a poor reputation, we do write the warning in a somewhat indirect way. We just hope it gets through somehow.
If you’re mentally prepared in advance, then even if the man treats you badly, you may realize, “So this is what they were referring to,” and be able to decline on the spot—or handle the situation while still keeping the upper hand.