I’m the person who asked the question at https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4011. Thank you all for your comments, and I’m sorry for taking up your time with such a pathetic question. I was just venting because I had become particularly attached to this woman. Personally, as Papuwa-san’s comment suggested, I wanted a response without any empty social niceties, and a simple “Sorry” would have been fine. The truth is, I just felt foolish for eagerly replying because I took her words about looking forward to seeing me at face value. It’s a matter of wounded pride, really. Even though this is a dating club, from now on I’ll remember that what matters is simply whether someone actually replies, regardless of how many flattering things they say.
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Also, this Q&A box is incredibly useful. I think all male and female members, as well as the staff, should definitely read it. I’m grateful to everyone who takes the time to comment on the various questions posted by all sorts of people.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Even though this is a dating club, I’ll keep in mind that, going forward, what matters most is whether I get a reply or not, regardless of how flowery the promises are.
That’s true, and it really is all or nothing—exactly as you say...
But if that’s all there is to it, it feels kind of sad.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> I just felt foolish for eagerly replying because I took “I’m looking forward to seeing you” at face value.
I think anyone would have replied.
And it’s perfectly normal to assume there’ll be another date.
The real issue is what happens afterward.
The more you like her, the harder it must be, but remember:
“There’s always tomorrow.”
P.S. HAL—now that takes me back. At the time, I heard it was created by shifting each letter of IBM back by one, and I thought that was an amazing way to come up with a name. I also heard later that HAL Laboratory got its name from the same idea.
The name HAL certainly had a big impact back then, but when I checked Wikipedia, I saw that the original author had denied it.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I also prefer a straightforward rejection, but perhaps the polite response was simply that woman’s way of showing courtesy. Hopefully you can use this experience next time.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Honestly, it’s best to make an offer to someone within her first week of joining. (Or maybe within just a few days…)
I think people change after two weeks.
After two or three months, even more so…
And after a few years, maybe they’ve experienced everything and, conversely, return to being good people like hermits? Have they grown? Evolved?
The meetings become calmer, as if you’re being genuinely valued.
Of course, everyone is different…
Also, honestly, you probably shouldn’t be reading this Q&A… Because what I really want is to meet women (or men) who don’t read this site… Either way.
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