I’m a Type B member.

I’m Saito, a columnist♪. I think that’s right. (I’m sure the club also listens to the men’s opinions, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.) On the other hand, the clubs genuinely want this information so they don’t later discover, to their surprise, that someone they introduced as “a wonderful man” was actually abusive or a stalker. In particular, the fact that the nature of the problems has changed due to COVID is something that’s happening at every club.

Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here as well. > I’m worried that this may have given the club a bad impression of me. I don’t think this situation will make you look bad. In fact, because it hasn’t harmed the club’s impression of you, they contacted you to confirm what happened and decided that the man needed to be warned. That’s why they’re cautioning him. Rather than focusing on whether the club will view you negatively, I think you should decide whether to check the option indicating whether you would accept another invitation from this man. If you’d like him to invite you again, feel that you can handle a man like this, and are able to clearly say no to things you dislike, then it would probably be better not to check the option for the club to contact him, and simply submit a report instead. (The club can then keep him on record as someone like that.) A man who is this persistent is also highly likely to keep pressuring you about things you’ve said you don’t want, even if you enter into an adult relationship (intimate) with him. If you feel it would be better to part ways now, I recommend checking the option so the club can warn him in the future as well. One thing to keep in mind: Saying, “I was troubled by what he did,” generally won’t make you look bad. However, saying something like, “He was awful because he did this, so I want the club to punish him,” is more likely to leave a negative impression.

I’m Basil, a male member. As someone who goes for Type B from the very first meeting, this hits close to home. Of course, I’m careful about how I bring it up, so the club has never warned me about it—but who knows what people may have been saying about me behind the scenes. Personally, I’d like this to be reserved for serious disputes.

I’m Rin, a female member. Whether a check was necessary or not is something only the people involved can truly know, so I can neither deny nor affirm it. That said, actions taken impulsively in the heat of the moment often don’t lead to very good results. If you yourself aren’t sure after looking back on what happened, it might be better to take a breath and think it over before acting.

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. Based on the content, I’m not sure whether checkboxes were really necessary. However, considering that many women don’t provide feedback, perhaps including them would help cover that as well. It also seems that some men become even worse on the second meeting, so having a checkbox might be useful to help prevent that. From next time on, when filling out the survey, it may be better to wait until you’ve returned home rather than giving anything other than positive feedback right away.