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Jun 13, 2020 14:11
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Other
I’m BB7, a male member.
There’s no way a woman is going to say yes when you ask, “Can we meet at my place?”
We’re not middle schoolers.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
No way.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a columnist.
I completely understand why you feel it would be a waste, but in this situation, booking a hotel is really the only option. Saying you want to go to her place on the very first day is rather rude, but frankly, I can only think that you’ve completely lost your mind.
Even if she agreed, I doubt the cost would end there—it probably wouldn’t be covered by a suite at the Ritz. It wasn’t on the first day in my case, but I went to her place, got completely wrapped around her finger, and she extracted an eight-figure sum from me over the little more than a year we were together. That’s why I can’t stop crying whenever I go to Ebisu—though, of course, they’re fake tears.
These days, because of COVID, it may not qualify as truly top-class, but you can still stay at a hotel in the ¥10,000 range without feeling embarrassed about bringing along a gorgeous, sultry G-cup woman. So, for the sake of keeping the economy moving, please go ahead and book one.
Meg
Female
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光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
I agree with Marika.
When it comes to someone’s home, I think it’s best to consider it off-limits unless the other person brings it up first.
I feel like it would very likely mean game over.
Of course, it would be a different story if the allowance went up several times over, like in Riichi’s case, haha.
I’d be happy if the day came when I received an invitation from my partner♪
Other
I’m Marika, a female member.
If you’re unable to stay overnight for your own reasons, why not let her sleep in and tell her to take her time until morning?
I don’t think it would be a bad deal for her to relax at a nice hotel, get ready on her own, and then head to school or work from there.
If she wants to leave too, you can both check out and pay the room fee.
There’s no such thing as getting her a separate room.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I don’t feel I can ask her to come to my place.
If we’re meeting around 7 or 8 p.m., I usually go to a hotel first once we’ve met a few times—typically by the second meeting.
You can relax at a hotel, and I feel it makes for a more satisfying experience.
Even if there aren’t any love hotels nearby, why not try starting at a hotel with an overnight plan?
It can be fun deciding what to eat or where to go while lying in bed, looking at the menu together—still naked.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Naturally, I don’t use the other person’s home. If a day-use hotel or love hotel isn’t an option, I book an overnight stay.
I used to just wing it, but once I couldn’t find a hotel and ended up killing the mood for the woman. Since then, especially in areas where love hotels tend to be packed on Friday nights, I make an overnight reservation on days when things look risky.
If the woman turns me down, or after we part ways, I often call for a massage and stay until the next morning.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
If there are no love hotels, no late checkout day-use plans, and only regular hotels available, then it seems your only option is to pay for an overnight stay and use the room during the day, even if it feels wasteful.
As an aside, I believe APA Hotels were advertising overnight stays for ¥2,500, but that offer was limited to June.
As for using your partner’s home, I think it might be possible if you regularly give them a generous allowance and they like you. However, I doubt someone who feels that paying for a day-use hotel is wasteful would be offering a generous allowance, so realistically, there’s a good chance they’ll refuse.