I’m Basil, a male member.
As long as she’s basically a C-type and there isn’t an issue at the first meeting, I don’t pursue things too aggressively. However, if she really is on her period, and explains that clearly while making specific plans for the next time, I’m willing to wait.
If you speak sincerely so it doesn’t come across as an excuse to turn me down, I don’t think there’s any need to worry.
For reference, there have also been a few times when a girl was on her period at our first meeting and took care of me orally.
Maezawa from the Planning and Management Office here as well.
> Even if I wanted to meet and spend time with him next week, I’m worried that if I decline that day and ask to do it next time instead, the man might tell the club that things didn’t progress any further.
You should be fine, since we almost never receive that kind of report.
That said, this is usually an issue when the two of you simply aren’t compatible.
When it comes to having your period, though, it often turns into something like, “Why didn’t you tell me you were on your period?”
So if you get your period, it may be safest to let the club know in advance.
However, the basic rule is that women don’t tell the men directly that they’re on their period.
So after the date, if he invites you to continue after dinner, it could turn into an exchange like:
“I did tell the club, though.”
“What? No one told me.”
Even so, this is probably the safest option because it means the woman won’t get blamed.
Another approach is for the club to tell the man that the woman isn’t feeling well. (Lately, I feel like this may actually be more common, though the response probably varies depending on the branch and staff member.)
The woman tells the club she’s on her period.
The club informs the man.
The date is canceled. (In that case, they offer him another woman instead.)
Sometimes that happens as well.
I’m not entirely sure why it becomes a cancellation rather than a rescheduling, but in most cases, that man won’t make another offer to her afterward ＞＜
It’s possible that the fact she was on her period wasn’t communicated clearly, and he simply assumed it was a last-minute cancellation due to illness.
But it may be more likely that, despite her being a Type C dating partner, he really wanted to take things further that day.
Still, most men will probably say, “I’m looking forward to next time.” (They may be angry with the club, but the woman herself hasn’t done anything wrong.)
I’m Hikoki, a male member.
> I have a new offer next week,
If you can suggest another date close to the original, I think it would be best to consult the staff and have them explain that you need to reschedule for health reasons.
If it isn’t possible to arrange another nearby date, you’ll have to meet her first and discuss it in person…
With a Type C arrangement, if you turn her down on the first day, the chances of things continuing are practically zero.
It may be best to accept that it simply wasn’t meant to be.
