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Jun 5, 2020 23:22
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I feel somewhat guilty toward the woman in my monthly arrangement, but I don’t feel guilty toward my wife at all.
Am I starting to lose my mind?
5 answers
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I understand how you feel.
You can see the person you have a monthly arrangement with without worrying, right?
But perhaps you’re feeling guilty because your feelings are currently leaning toward your pay-per-meeting partner.
The person you have a monthly arrangement with is probably making you feel like you’re the only one for him—showering you with affection… or at least pretending to when he’s with you.
Huh?
That’s strange…
Maybe I’m getting a little jaded too.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
The fact that you’re asking a question like that here is unusual, and I’m concerned about you.
You should probably quit using dating clubs. Please return to a normal life for a while.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
People who ask, “Is this abnormal?” are often secretly pleased when they’re told, “You’re sick.”
They’re just intoxicated by the idea that they’re popular outside their family, so honestly, does it really matter either way?
This type usually panics when their wife actually gets seriously angry or decides they’re no longer worth caring about.
Seriously, who cares?
Papua-sama, your insight is truly impressive!!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, answering as well.
Everyone has their own circumstances.
I think it depends on what your relationship with your wife is like, so I can’t say whether it’s abnormal or not.
If you’re concerned, why not consider seeing a psychiatrist for counseling?
A professional should be able to give you proper guidance.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That’s perfectly natural.
The other night, I tried to sneak into bed with my wife, but she kicked me and yelled, “Damn it!”
It made me want to leave home…