I made an offer, the date and time for the first date have been confirmed, and the fee has already been paid.

I’m Meg, a female member. I really like men who stick to their word♪ I mean, he even showed up in my dreams before our first date. Do you have any idea how much I was looking forward to seeing him? Just imagining him canceling on me… (sob) So, what I’m trying to say is: Enough already!

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Is it possible to cancel the first date and go out with the woman I was matched with later instead? That isn’t allowed under the rules. Women also make plans and need time to prepare mentally. If a date is canceled after it’s been confirmed, she may feel disappointed too. Most men would be angry if someone canceled on them at the last minute, so it’s wrong to think you’re free to do whatever you want just because you’re paying. If you consider that you’re paying because the woman is registered with us, then the two parties are essentially on equal footing. > I would still like to go out with the first woman on another day, though. In that case, it’s simple. Ask the first woman if you can change the date. You should then be able to arrange the date for, say, a week later. Changing the date isn’t considered a cancellation. Then you can make an offer to another woman for the original date. Naturally, you’ll need to transfer the offer fee for the additional woman as well.

I’m paper airplane, a male member. Thinking about the future and what’s best for you, I think you should meet the first person instead of canceling, and then meet someone else afterward. You might be able to change the arrangement by paying a cancellation fee, but you’d lose the club’s trust, and I don’t think that’s something you should do. If you want to meet someone else, I think your only option would be to shorten the meeting time and see two people on the same day.

I’m a male member from Seattle. Since the first woman has rearranged her schedule and made herself available that day, canceling at this point probably wouldn’t be right. Why not offer the other woman a different day instead?