Do I necessarily have to have an adult relationship (intimate) with men I meet here…?

I’m a columnist and a flag maker. If that’s how you feel, and you need ¥150,000, you’d be better off borrowing it from your boyfriend or your parents. I think that would suit you better.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Even with a Type A arrangement, getting ¥150,000 or more a month is certainly possible if some kind of lucky coincidence—or mistake—happens. But there are probably foolish men out there who end up getting taken for several times that amount… Even so, the asker gives off such a strong “money, money, money” vibe that it probably won’t work out for you… You can’t undo regret afterward—just endless remorse…

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Are the men registered here not interested in women who don’t want to progress to an adult relationship (intimate)…? If you’re an exceptionally beautiful woman, possess some kind of rare appeal, or have something that makes a man want to meet you even for dinner only (no intimacy), then some men may still make an offer and pay an allowance even without an adult relationship. However, I think there also needs to be some possibility that it could happen. For example: “Basically, I only want dinner, but if you genuinely win me over, I might consider an adult relationship depending on the circumstances. The chances aren’t zero.” That can lead some men to think, “All right, I’ll spend six months trying to win her over,” or, “She’s hard to get, so I’ll give it a shot.” But if it’s more like, “My boyfriend is my priority, so there is zero chance of an adult relationship. It’s absolutely impossible,” then men may simply have trouble finding a reason to meet you. A dating club is also a place to enjoy meeting people. If you need to somehow come up with ¥150,000 this month, you might consider working after your regular job at a construction site that pays daily, for example. If you don’t have the stamina for that, working in the adult entertainment industry would be more reliable. Some men are attracted to women who are truly determined. Some enjoy meeting women they normally could never meet, or having a woman agree to see them even though an adult relationship would otherwise be out of the question. If you genuinely need the money, there may be times when you have to steel yourself and work at it for just one month. Even if you make up your mind, offers may not come, so I think it’s better to decide as soon as possible and start considering your next option. Come to think of it, wasn’t there also a COVID-19 support loan available to individuals? And I think the ¥100,000 relief payment may still be available if you apply this month. If you look into various options, you may find a way forward.

I’m Joe, the columnist. I usually like to play “after-the-fact rock-paper-scissors” (not “finishing inside,” by the way), but this time I’ll go first. Whether things lead to an adult relationship (intimate) is entirely up to the mutual consent of the people involved. There’s also a Type A category for women like you. They’re quite rare, but I imagine there are male members who would fulfill your wishes with dinner only (no intimacy). The question is, what can you offer in return? What are your selling points? At least from your wording, I couldn’t sense any of your appeal at all. You say you need the money this month. Regardless of whether it arrives in time, the kind-hearted Cabinet Office is giving people ¥100,000. That may still leave you a little short of what you need, but since you’re a working adult, a consumer finance company could lend it to you within ten minutes. There’s no need to join while you’re still feeling anxious. I hope you’re able to come up with the money somehow.

I’m Rin, a female member. You’re in such a difficult situation… Have you talked to your beloved boyfriend about it? You’re planning to register for just one month to make ¥150,000. Does that mean you’d also end things with any man you meet after just one month? If so, wouldn’t that be difficult unless you went with D? My impression is that there aren’t many men looking for someone just once. That’s only my impression, though. That said, if you were an incredibly attractive woman who made everyone turn their heads, and someone they could talk with endlessly, there might be a man willing to understand your situation and casually pay you that amount for dinner only. Even then, though, saying, “I’m satisfied now! Okay, goodbye!” feels incredibly rude. If it’s only for one month, you’d probably make money more reliably through nightlife work or another evening job with a relatively high hourly wage… You may end up saving the money, but I feel it would be even more painful if you could no longer look your boyfriend straight in the eye. P.S. To Mac-sama: Exactly… I’m sorry. I felt like I had to apologize on behalf of girls who are too naive…