Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Or does that mean you trust what people report about themselves?
Yes, we trust their self-reported information.
That said, we’ve never received a complaint saying, “This woman lied about her occupation.” (Or it’s happened so rarely that I’m unaware of it.) So I believe most women are honest about it.
We also tell them during the interview not to lie. It’s possible to keep their occupation vague, and some do, but basically, I think they answer honestly.
Since they’re considering the possibility of a long-term relationship with the man, they seem to understand that there’s little benefit to lying.
That said, if someone asks us not to write “cabin attendant” even though she’s one, or not to write “doctor” even though she is one, we’ll keep her occupation vague when we understand the reason.
However, if a woman feels that the man is trustworthy, I imagine she’ll tell him her actual occupation. That may be why these cases don’t result in complaints either.
In the first place, men are much more likely to lie about their occupations, so I honestly wonder, “Why lie?”
I wish they would learn from the women who are upfront about these things.
It makes me think, “You’re even deceiving the staff?”
Quite a lot gets found out, you know. We just don’t say anything. (笑)
> Some women involved in the adult entertainment industry may be honest about it, but I imagine virtually no one is honest about their past experience in the industry.
Quite a few women say that they work in adult entertainment—more than half, perhaps—which surprises us.
The reason you’ve never seen anyone list “adult entertainment” in the occupation field is that Universe has an internal rule not to write it there.
If someone really doesn’t want to meet a woman in that line of work, they can write in the notes when making an offer, “If her occupation is adult entertainment, I will withdraw the offer.” The offer will then be canceled.
Of course, if she works as an office employee during the day and in adult entertainment at night, she’ll probably report herself as an office worker, so the club may not be able to know.
Incidentally, there was also a case where a woman noticed that a man had written on his profile, “Please let me know if you have breast implants,” and reported it to the staff. We contacted the man, and the offer was canceled.
It made me think that women are surprisingly honest when it comes to rules.
> Even if you’ve only appeared as an extra, you can call yourself an adult video actress who has appeared in multiple productions.
Women who work as adult video actresses, rather than merely appearing as extras, often take pride in their work. Many of them actually ask us to list “adult video actress” without obscuring their occupation.
I imagine that’s because they have many fans in the adult video industry, attract large numbers of male fans at events, and feel that their work benefits society by bringing comfort to many men.
Unfortunately, they aren’t popular at dating clubs.
They’re avoided about as much as women in adult entertainment. (Many men avoid that line of work as well.)
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
To be honest, I’d prefer both men and women to keep their occupations private.
For women especially, if they have a good profession, all the more so.
And if it’s a less reputable profession, definitely.
Some people in the nightlife industry may be willing to talk about it honestly, but I doubt anyone would openly admit to having experience in the hostess or sex industry.
Even if there are inaccuracies in a profile, I don’t think it’s usually a problem once you meet and talk in person.
As the relationship continues, they’ll often start opening up about things they couldn’t tell the club, and I don’t mind that either.
I’m Rin, a female member.
As for my job, I honestly told them, even though I would have preferred to keep it private. Apparently, there are quite a few people who fall under the ○○-related category, so they also asked which university I graduated from. That was all.
To be honest, some women do seem to embellish their backgrounds a little because they want offers…
Office worker → secretary
Works for an airline → ground staff or cabin crew (if she’s attractive)
“Future cabin crew member” → just a college student, since not everyone actually makes it
The young, cute women around me say,
“I work in reception♡”
What I often find myself thinking is that when you’re in a completely different field, it’s probably easier for everyone to turn that profession into an image and fit the people in it to that image.
So, as someone who finds it difficult to fit in within my own industry and is constantly told I’m different from the expected image, I sincerely hope to meet people who enjoy that kind of contrast（笑）
Am I being too obvious about it?
Sorry…
