I used to belong to another club, but I was dissatisfied with the number and looks of the women, so last month I became a Platinum member of Universe.
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This time, there’s almost too much information, and I can’t narrow down my choices. My favorites list just keeps growing, but I still haven’t been able to make an offer. If I consult with a staff member, would they be able to give me some advice?
I really like this Q&A section. I think it’s one of the club’s greatest assets.
I’m Joe, a columnist.
I understand how you feel. It really can be hard to decide.
Here’s the method I use:
1. Reset your favorites and delete them all.
2. Then narrow them down to 10 people within 20 minutes.
3. Have the club choose from those 10.
That’s it.
If you ask for advice in vague terms, I don’t think you’ll get a very useful response. If you give them some criteria, they may be able to help. Give it a try! That said, I can’t guarantee you’ll be satisfied.
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I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I’m so glad you like the Q&A box—and that you even called it a treasure!
Thank you so much!!!
(What, you’re saying I didn’t need to thank you on everyone’s behalf?)
Oh my, how wonderful of you to even consider making me an offer☆
(My imagination is getting way out of hand.)
As tempting as it is, I’m currently taking a break, so I’ll have to politely decline this time.
I’ll be quietly cheering you on as you meet someone wonderful♪
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> This time, there’s just too much information, and I can’t narrow down my choices. My list of favorites keeps growing, but I still haven’t been able to send an offer.
Haha（笑）
That’s how it goes（笑）
But this is where you need to narrow things down as much as possible, consult the staff, and send an offer.
The real issue comes afterward.
If she turns out to be a “hit,” then great. If she’s a “miss,” accept that you simply weren’t a good judge of character and make the best of it.
Since you’ve narrowed your choices down so carefully, there shouldn’t be much difference between them anyway. The person in front of you is a reflection of yourself.
Wishing you the best of luck!!
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> If I consult with the staff, would they be able to give me advice?
If you’re in the Platinum class, you can consult with them by phone.
Why not ask them about whatever you’re unsure about?
For example, you could narrow it down to about five women you’d like to make an offer to and ask, “Which of these would you recommend?”
It may also help to ask what they like about each woman, as that can make it easier for you to decide.
> This is just based on my personal experience, but the women who receive lower ratings from the staff—especially the female staff—tend to be more fun as dating partners. I wonder why that is?
I didn’t realize that happened, but women are often the harshest critics of other women.
When I watch the interviews, it’s the female staff who tend to give the toughest evaluations. They scrutinize everything, pointing out that this or that is no good. As a man, I find myself thinking, “Would that really bother anyone that much?” But apparently, women see things differently.
On the other hand, when a woman catches the eye of the female staff, her rating can shoot up dramatically. Sometimes I find myself thinking, “Is she really that great?”
Maybe men are generally lenient toward women, while women judge other women more strictly.
Come to think of it, there was also a woman whose profile said she was “Dating Type B, but closer to C—almost A,” so she received very few offers at first. She had also been interviewed by female staff.
Women are scary ><
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I was in exactly the same situation after joining. My favorites list grew to nearly 100 women.
I remember going back through them several times, gradually narrowing the list down, and then making my first offer.
If you ask the staff for advice, I recommend narrowing it down to a reasonable number first, then asking, “Are there any women among these you’d recommend?”
If you ask for general advice, they may recommend women who aren’t really your type, which can leave you in a difficult position.
I’m sure this is troubling you, but this may actually be the most enjoyable stage. Have fun with it.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I think it’s best to start by sending offers to your favorites among the women who have joined recently.
For anyone who’s been a member for three months or more, you can always reach out later.
From the groups who joined within the past few days, within the past week, or within the past month, I’d suggest choosing the woman you like best.
The staff have their own preferences too, so unless a woman has an exceptionally bad reputation, they’ll probably end up recommending everyone.
If you’re having trouble deciding, I think it’s easier to look for someone who’s your type among the Gold members.
With Platinum members, it’s easy to get influenced by the class rankings, which makes it harder to choose based solely on your own preferences. Then, after meeting them, I often find myself regretting that I didn’t really choose based on what I liked.
With Gold members, I choose purely based on personal preference, so I’ve never felt that I made the kind of mistake I sometimes make with Platinum members.
P.S. Thanks, Mac!
I joined thinking I’d start by trying Platinum, so then I feel like I have to send offers to Platinum members too, and end up doing it…
Then I start wondering if maybe everyone who seems like they’d complain, “I won’t accept anything below Platinum…” is being classified as Platinum.
That’s why I never really felt motivated to send an offer to anyone in Black either…
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