I turned down someone via LINE after our date because his allowance was far too low.
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He wasn’t a bad person, so I didn’t block him, but he messages me every day. It’s the epitome of an “uncle LINE”: childish wording, emojis everywhere, and always a heart at the end.
It’s amusing, so I read his messages without replying, but what on earth is he thinking when he sends them?
It’s been about a month since our date, and I’d like to understand the mindset of someone who keeps sending messages every day without getting bored or angry, even though I leave them on read every time.
I’m a male member, BB7.
Since joining this club, it’s been quite an eye-opening experience to realize just how many creepy old men there are out there.
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
Maybe it’s a little like a boomerang.
I figured that out of 365 days, I might get lucky and hook someone at least once a day. I used to do this a lot when I was a bored, broke student.
If you had around 300 women like that, you could have sex for free every day.
It works surprisingly well, especially around a woman’s birthday or at Christmas.
After I started working, I stopped because I was worried about the time involved and being recognized. But some soccer and baseball players still pick women up through Instagram or make moves on their fans. There’s no way I could do that.
(Every now and then I even think, “Should I expose my LINE chats with women…?” Haha.)
I also enjoy taking on the role of an older brother or younger brother, depending on the situation. Haha.
It’s just like enjoying fishing.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Huh??
There are really people like that?
Ignoring your messages for a whole month without learning their lesson...
How amusing!
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> I want to understand the mindset of someone who keeps messaging me every day without getting bored or angry, even though I leave their messages on read.
The fact that you read the messages—that’s what keeps them going.
As long as you’re reading them, they probably think there’s still a chance.
That’s really all there is to it. So if you block them and their messages stop being marked as read, they’ll eventually give up.
> Because the allowance they’re offering is far too low.
If that’s the case, I think it’s fine to clearly tell them so. It may also help to state the amount you’re looking for.
That might make them more likely to give up.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m also the type who doesn’t get discouraged even when I’m left on read, so I can somewhat understand how you feel.
Maybe you keep knocking because you’re hoping that, at some point, they’ll chuckle and open the door. I imagine you’re knocking just to see what happens, without really expecting anything.
If you used to be close, giving it some time and then knocking again when the timing feels right might eventually get the door to open.
But if you weren’t even close to begin with, no amount of frequent knocking is going to make that door open, lol. I think you’re just sending messages for fun, figuring you’ve got nothing to lose.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
That person’s strengths are definitely:
- Patience
- A sense of humor
It’s such a shame—if only he’d been a little smarter, he might have known how to win a woman’s heart.
But yes, that’s all just a hypothetical now.
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I’m a male member in Seattle.
If it sounds interesting, just leave it on read.
If he raises the allowance on his own, maybe it’s worth considering? ☺︎^_^ (lol) (＞人＜;)（^人^）♡♡♡
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