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May 26, 2020 07:20
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I’ve sent her several offers, but she kept turning them down due to scheduling and other circumstances. Recently, I’ve been unable to view her profile.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Is it possible to block offers?
There is no feature specifically for blocking offers.
The official answer to this question is:
Because there is a personalization feature similar to Google’s, some offers may not be displayed to individual users.
That is the explanation.
> I kept declining because of scheduling issues...
If your schedules didn’t line up, I don’t think there was much you could do. It seems quite possible that they subsequently withdrew from the service.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Maezawa-san,
How many people end up being blocked from viewing someone’s profile? Is it really that common?
If I ask the staff, will they tell me whether the person has withdrawn, gone on leave, or blocked me from viewing them?
Would I be happier simply assuming they withdrew or took a break?
Sorry for jumping in with a related question m(_ _)m
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
Putting the system aside, if the timing really doesn’t work for me when someone sends me an offer, I’ll reply with alternative dates or a word of thanks for the offer.
It sounds like they were a very attractive person to you. Unfortunately, though, I’m sure there are other people who would be a better match, so I recommend moving on and looking ahead.
Meg
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
Oh my… you’ve really become unpopular, haven’t you?
Poor thing…
But don’t be so persistent, okay?
Take it easy~
Look, there are plenty of other cute girls too, right?
Like me, me, and me.
Huh?
Women in their 40s aren’t welcome?
Yes, my apologies.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
It’s possible. It may come as a shock, but that’s the truth. I understand how you feel. The circumstances were a little different, but I also had several consecutive experiences of being rejected at the offer stage^^;
It leaves you feeling kind of unsettled, doesn’t it? But there’s really nowhere to direct those feelings. If you take it up with the club, you’ll just come across like a complainer.
The only thing you can do is push it out of your mind with new, positive experiences. Even now, though, I sometimes think while I’m taking a bath, “I wonder why she turned me down. I really wanted to meet her.”
This happened when I made an offer to a Type B woman.
When I looked back at the profile section on the male members’ page, I noticed I had checked only “I want to pursue a romantic relationship while understanding that this is a dating club.”
I unchecked that option and instead checked “Start with a dinner date” and “See how we click after meeting.” After that, I stopped being rejected by Type B women at the offer stage.
Maybe they were wary because I was a Type B?
I don’t know if this is the right answer, but I hope it helps.