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May 15, 2020 12:58
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Thank you all for your candid opinions.
I hadn’t included any information about myself, but I’m a woman in my 20s, and the man in his 60s was introduced to me through the club. I didn’t want to know, but another member told me my class, so I’m aware of it. I only learned later from reading columns and such that the allowance for our first meeting was not the amount set by the rules.
I reflected on whether, considering my appearance, personality, and the dates we had as a whole, I was worth only 0.5 to a man in his 60s. However, everyone I’ve met so far has continued seeing me, and since they’ve invited me out many times, I feel they don’t dislike me.
Even when we went to a room, I was kept there for more than four hours and wasn’t offered anything to eat. Judging from what I heard, I believe he treated the women before me the same way.
After hearing everyone’s opinions, I was able to confirm that my way of thinking wasn’t 100% wrong, so I’d like to have a proper conversation with him about physical affection during dinner-only (no intimacy) dates.
I’m grateful to everyone who took the time to answer.
2 answers
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
For some reason, I feel like listening if you’d like to talk. Speaking up might lead to something unpleasant, but I think you’ll feel better in the end, so hang in there.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> “The allowance for the first meeting wasn’t the amount stipulated by the rules.”
Huh?
Does that mean you only received 1,000–2,000 yen for a dinner-only date?
Under the club’s rules, even if you part ways after dinner only, the man is supposed to pay 5,000–10,000 yen. If the rules weren’t followed, please send your feedback to the club even now.
Also, it’s against the rules for a woman to ask for more than the stipulated amount on the first date. However, if a man offers 20,000 or 30,000 yen for dinner only, accepting it isn’t against the rules, so you can thank him and accept it without any problem.
That said, it’s frightening to think that other women may have suffered the same way, receiving only 1,000–2,000 yen. Even if some time has passed, please report it to the club.
If you don’t want the matter verified, we won’t be able to warn the man. Even so, we can recognize him as someone suspicious. If similar reports come from others, you may be the second or third person to report him, making it more likely that we’ll determine the women’s accounts to be accurate.