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May 12, 2020 17:35
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I’m the person who asked whether a woman approaching 40 can do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Thank you all so much for your thoughtful answers. I still haven’t quite worked up the courage to sign up, but while I’m figuring things out, I’d like to work on improving myself as much as I can.
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Meg
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
Female kept cat—
No, wait, I’m Meg, a female member.
Honestly, it’s such a tough decision, isn’t it?
It feels like closing your eyes and taking the leap off the stage at Kiyomizu-dera… emotionally speaking.
*Note: Please keep your eyes open during the photo shoot.*
> Papuwa-san is the most genuinely considerate of women here.
> Mac-san says that being even one day younger gives you an advantage.
I agree completely.
Wishing you the best of luck.
Unrelated, but I’m writing this to celebrate my six-month anniversary♪
<Kept Cat Profile>
I’m being kept by an intelligent master.
Sometimes I feel like saying something venomous,
but once I come to my senses, I delete it.
On days like that, my fellow answerers pat me and let me act spoiled.
Thank you all for accepting this silly me with such generous hearts m(_ _)m
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
If you’re still unsure, I don’t think you should go to the interview yet.
Also, unfortunately, I think you’re past the stage of having time to polish yourself—you’re now at the point where you need to make use of your life experience.
I’d like you to play to the mature appeal that younger women don’t have.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I totally understand why you feel anxious. It’s completely different from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’ve become curious about what the world of “on-call hosts” is like, so I’m thinking about going to an interview. I just haven’t worked up the courage yet, haha.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It takes quite a bit of courage to make that decision, doesn’t it?
A little while ago, I thought about introducing a woman in her 30s whom I’m close to to Univa. I gradually brought up the subject to see whether she might be interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but…
She said she couldn’t even consider papa-katsu, so I gave up on bringing it up, even casually.
She had jokingly told me many times before, “You should do papa-katsu,” or “Go do papa-katsu,” but…
I guess she was half serious and half joking.
While I felt relieved to hear her say she wouldn’t do papa-katsu, it also made me realize once again—including from my own experience of joining Univa—that women in particular need to make a very firm decision to take that step.
From a woman’s perspective, the hurdle is quite high, so I’d suggest joining when the timing feels right rather than rushing into it.
Also, since you’re asking, “Can I do papa-katsu?” just before turning 40, you seem fairly confident in your looks. There may even be men among those around you who would be willing to support you in a way similar to papa-katsu.
Univa is a good club too, but if you’re still unsure, something a little more natural like that can be wonderful as well.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Mac, a columnist.
I may be overstepping, but the younger you are, even by a single day, the better off you’ll be. I don’t think you have time to sit around working on yourself.