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May 11, 2020 16:07
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Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member who boldly (or recklessly?) took on the 45-year age limit.
I’m nowhere near as glamorous as the lovely Marika or elegant Tiara,
but I’m another flat-chested woman in her 40s.
I may be going for a different vibe than everyone else, but even I’ve received offers.
Women in their 30s are still young. Your best days are ahead.
Think about what strengths you have, remember that there are many invisible obstacles, and keep that in mind when signing up.
I look forward to meeting you (*^^*)
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Was that written from the mysterious perspective of a staff member?!
Other
I’m Marika, a female member in my 40s.
There are plenty of women in their 40s—not just those approaching 40.
Honestly, whether you can do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) depends less on your age than on your personal appeal.
Men usually make offers after seeing your photos first, so it’s an advantage if your appeal comes across right away. But if your strengths aren’t immediately obvious—such as having an amazing personality or being wonderful in an adult relationship (intimate)—you may be at a slight disadvantage.
At dating clubs, having an appearance that catches the eye makes it easier to receive offers, but I think arrangements last longer when you also have good qualities on the inside, such as a pleasant personality and physical compatibility.
I don’t think things work well if either one is lacking.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If you’re almost 40, that means you’re in your 30s, right? If you’ve been taking good care of your skin, you shouldn’t have any problem with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Regardless of age, some women become very popular. The opposite can happen too.
I can’t say which way it will go for you, but you won’t know until you register.
You might even be someone who receives a lot of offers, so I’d suggest coming in for an interview first.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Since there are women in their 40s who are registered, I think there is definitely demand for them. I vaguely remember seeing on the Q&A board that women in their 40s are popular because there aren’t many of them registered.
That said, I don’t think just anyone automatically becomes a popular woman. If you’re someone appealing whom men would genuinely like to make an offer to, I think you have a good chance of becoming popular.
Why not try it and see how other people evaluate you?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
I think there’s demand for men ranging from 7–8 years older to 20–30 years older.
Though I don’t think there’s that much of it…
I feel you’d be more comfortable and it would be easier to maintain a long-term relationship with someone within the age range of men you’ve dated before.