I’m the person who just asked the question, “Oh, that sounds tough.” I wanted to add something.
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Right after posting my question, I felt so miserable because I thought there was no chance he would ever meet me again, so I deleted his contact information.
Did I do the right thing…?
This is Joe, your columnist.
Of course, you’re absolutely right.
This may seem rather out of the blue, but the legendary swordsman Miyamoto Musashi once said, “I have no regrets about anything I do.” However, Joe believes those words came from someone who had—or once had—regrets. That’s precisely why they resonate with people and carry such persuasive power.
You’re probably feeling conflicted as well, but I believe that uncertainty can become the driving force behind your growth.
I hope you find a new connection.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
That’s perfectly okay.
I don’t think someone who truly cares about you would make you feel miserable.
I hope you find someone who will treat you with the care and respect you deserve.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Was this really the right thing to do…?
If you’ve already deleted it, there’s no point in wondering whether it was the right decision or not. I think the best thing is to move forward believing that it was.
That said, I do feel it would have been better to delete it after ending things more definitively—but it’s too late to worry about that now.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
“Yes, that sounds tough.” It was certainly a rather curt response.
As you said, there may be no chance after all. Rather than feeling miserable, though, perhaps it’s better to see this as a trial and take it as encouragement to grow and move forward.
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