I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
How many people have added someone to their favorites?
I’m not sure… I think it might be nice if that information were visible, but female members who haven’t been added to anyone’s favorites might find it a little discouraging.
I’m Meg, a female member.
I write it as “hope,” but read it as “patience.”
(↑ I’m totally copying yesterday’s post by Joe-sama.)
The number of likes?
Who cares? Ha-i, oppappi! ♪
I remembered that one for the first time in ages.
Wouldn’t it be a little upsetting if the number of favorites and the number of offers didn’t match? (Though I’m saying this assuming the offer count is lower…)
At least, that’s how I feel.
I understand wanting to hold on to hope, but sometimes ignorance really is bliss.
Whether offers come in or not, this is the time to focus on improving yourself!
Why not keep going with that mindset?
Your efforts will definitely pay off somewhere, someday.
There may even be people who sense that aura and send you an offer.
Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here.
The number of members who have added you to their favorites isn’t displayed on the member page, so you can’t see it there.
However, if you explain to the staff at your registered branch that you’re trying to get through this difficult time by looking ahead with hope and using it as an opportunity to work on yourself, there’s a good chance they may be able to tell you.
Why not ask them, even if you’re not sure they’ll be able to help?
If they can’t tell you, contact me through the inquiry form below the question box, and I’ll look into it for you.
https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
P.S. The number of favorites and the number of offers are usually different. The average number of favorites also varies by branch.
For example, in the Kanto area, it’s fairly common for someone to have 30 favorites but zero offers.
You may wonder, “Why have these 30 men added her to their favorites?”
Of course, it’s because they’re interested. But new women join every day, so it can feel like being perpetually second in line. Someone might be their second choice today, and they plan to make an offer next time—but then, a first choice appears later, so the offer gets postponed again. That cycle can continue.
At regional branches, however, someone with 30 favorites will often receive quite a few offers as well.
That’s because there aren’t as many new women registering at regional branches. If someone is the second choice today and the man plans to make an offer next time, that second-choice person may end up getting the offer when her turn comes.
