Tips Apr 15, 2020 12:09

I’ve been registered for almost two weeks and am over 45. There’s been no sign of an offer at all.

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I understand that it can’t be helped because of the current circumstances, and that meeting in person may be difficult, but I’m feeling discouraged and wondering if my age or appearance is the issue. I consulted with the staff at the branch, and they kindly gave me very thorough advice. I updated my private photos and comments and even took the mistress compatibility assessment, but I still haven’t received any offers. I also added in the comments section that I’m open to advance bookings and even online dates, but there have still been no offers. I’d honestly be so happy to receive just one offer… I’d really like to do my best with a well-established club like yours, so I would greatly appreciate any advice on what else I can do. After reading the responses from your representative, Mr. Kida, Mr. Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office, and the staff, I can see how sincerely you all approach your work. I would truly like to meet someone through this club. Thank you in advance.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Joe, a columnist. Even though we’re in different positions, I think I understand how anxious you must be feeling. Some women have received offers only after being registered for about a year—and sometimes several in a row. If it’s only been two weeks, there’s still plenty of potential. However, as Mac mentioned, things are going into a hiatus, so it may take some time. Please don’t put yourself down too much. I’m not sure if I should say this, but if you’d be okay with me, I’d be happy to offer you an online date! (And I’m being totally serious.)
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. I’m in the same boat. I can imagine how difficult you must be feeling. That said, I also think the timing may not be right just yet… This is a great time to focus on improving yourself in many ways. Don’t rush—be patient and wait. Come to think of it, someone asked in the previous Q&A whether there’s demand for women in their 40s. Our admired user, Kamihikōki, has even received offers from men in their 40s. (Oh wow!) Please keep your hopes up. I hope you meet a wonderful man. (*^^*) I’m rooting for you♪ > Joe-nii, > You’re amaaaazing♡
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前澤(スタッフ)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
This is Maezawa from the Business Planning Office. Before the state of emergency was declared, we were receiving offers fairly regularly, but they’ve decreased since then. For now, I think it would be best to wait until the state of emergency is lifted. Until now, some men felt that meeting one-on-one was still okay. However, with governors requesting that various businesses close or reduce their hours, and many restaurants actually shutting down, they may have come to feel that even going on a date is difficult right now. Universe has also announced that we’re temporarily closing our offices. That said, we will still arrange meetings for those who wish to proceed, and you can reach us as usual. It’s probably just a time when we all need to be a little patient. https://universe-club.jp/staffblog/46125/
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. In March, I made an online offer to a woman around the same age as you, and we went on a date. It was my first time making an offer to someone in her 40s. I’d had her saved as a favorite for several months, but it still took me three or four months to actually make the offer. Since I mainly make offers to women in their 20s, my turn didn’t come around very often. I was interested in her, so I eventually made an online offer. I haven’t made any offers since April, so I think this is probably a time when very few offers are coming in. Given when you joined, even women recommended by the branch staff may still often have received zero offers.
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