I’m a female member (23) and it’s been less than a month since I registered.
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It may be because I haven’t been registered for long and we’re also in a period of refraining from going out, but I’m starting to feel a little anxious because I haven’t received a single offer yet…
I feel that my looks may not be particularly suited to this kind of activity, and I’m also not confident in how I look in photos. So I’m wondering whether I should change my hair color and have my photos taken again. (My current profile photo shows me with blonde hair because of my job.)
Are women with darker hair and a more refined, wholesome look generally preferred?
Or is it okay to wait a little longer without rushing…?
Sorry for the long post. I’d really appreciate hearing your opinions.
Maezawa from the Planning Department here as well.
Even if you haven’t received any offers, I recommend waiting and seeing how things go for about six months.
Your hair color puts you at a significant disadvantage, so log in to your member page and, if you’ve dyed your hair black, add a note saying so. It would also be a good idea to upload a selfie showing your black hair.
The number of dates has decreased since the state of emergency was declared. Basically, I don’t think there will be many dates until the emergency declaration ends on May 6.
(That said, perhaps this is what makes Universe—there’s never a day when the number reaches zero?)
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
First, given the timing, I think everyone is feeling a bit self-deprecating.
Second, as for the blonde hair, even if it’s for work, I don’t think it’s especially well received by older men.
Since it’s this time of year, it might be best not to rush and simply see how things play out.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m sure it’s making you anxious, but there’s no point rushing things at a time like this. It sounds like the number of offers has dropped quite a bit, too.
For now, if I get an offer for an online date, I accept it and try to secure a follow-up date—that’s about all I can do.
As for your hair color, getting new photos taken might help, but you could also mention in your profile that the color is due to your job.
At this club, women are generally expected to take a passive role, so basically, all we can do is wait.
Sorry if this doesn’t really answer your question.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
Since April, the state of emergency has certainly made things more difficult.
Being a smoker or having tattoos also lowers your chances. It would be troublesome to find out later even if you tried to hide them, though.
Hair color can definitely put you at a disadvantage too. As you suspected, dark hair and a refined, wholesome look are the most popular. It’s also problematic if someone’s photos show black hair but they turn up blonde in person.
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