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Apr 10, 2020 16:38
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Thankfully, while I was registered here, I received several offers.
I wanted to pursue a sincere relationship with the last person who contacted me, so I took his feelings into consideration and withdrew. However, once things actually got underway, it turned out that our level of enthusiasm was completely different… In the end, I was the only one who thought we were going to pursue a serious relationship, which was a rather humiliating outcome.
I was deeply shocked and it was painful, but there’s no point dwelling on it, so I’m hoping to register again.
My question is: I didn’t keep the club names of the people who previously made me offers, and there are some I can no longer identify. If I’m allowed to register again, would my profile be hidden from the people who previously made me offers? Does the club still retain that data?
Also, regarding my class setting: I was previously in Class B, but in most cases, things progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) on the very day we met. In that case, would Class C be more appropriate?
Thank you in advance.
3 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, だて◎ゆめ.
> I wanted to have a sincere relationship with the person who made me the last offer, so I took their feelings into consideration and left the club. But once everything came to light, it turned out our levels of enthusiasm were completely different… In the end, I was the only one who had seriously intended to pursue a relationship, which was pretty pathetic.
There are all kinds of men registered with dating clubs, so I’m sure some members are insincere.
That said, there are also members who keep their promises, so I think it’s best to observe the other person carefully and see how things develop.
I’ve also had someone suddenly say something completely outrageous and leave the club just two or three days after we started seeing each other. I’ve even met female members suspected of being involved in a “dating type” scam. But I’ve also met young women who genuinely engaged with me, and the experience has taught me a lot.
I hope you have a wonderful encounter!
Meg
Female
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Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
That must have been really tough.
Sounds like a tragedy unfolded.
Still, good for you for changing your mindset despite everything!
You’ve got to be savvy about these things.
Hang in there♪
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
If it hasn’t been too long since you withdrew, your profile and setting data may still be on file. If some time has passed, it may be more difficult, but try asking to re-register and check whether it’s possible.
If they tell you that the data has been deleted and there’s nothing they can do, you can simply say, “Because of the man I was seeing, I’ll give up on re-registering.”
As for relationship types, there are women listed as Type B who end up having an adult relationship (intimate) with almost everyone on the day of their first meeting. So rather than thinking, “Then I should choose Type C,” I think you should select the relationship type you personally feel is right for you.
If someone is listed as Type A but is actually Type B, or listed as Type B but is actually Type C, it generally won’t lead to a complaint.
However, with the reverse situation, some men get furious. That’s why we tell you to choose your type properly and not to lie.
As long as it’s not a situation that would result in a complaint, I think it’s best to choose the type according to your own preferences.