In a monthly arrangement, if we don’t meet at all for an entire month, how should the allowance be handled?

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. If it’s a monthly arrangement, I believe the right thing to do is to make the payment, since I consider a monthly arrangement to be a contractual agreement.

I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane. Maybe I’ll become an easy mark too~ Depending on her job, there are girls I can’t meet for a while. Among them, some say, “Could you transfer it to me~?” while others don’t ask for anything, saying, “I don’t want to put you at risk~.” It’s a confusing time… Perhaps it’s time to choose… P.S. Meg Ah, I’m sorry m(._.)m I ended up becoming a traitor… online…

I’m Seattle, a male member. Basically, I think this is one of those situations where you should show some generosity—especially if you have a monthly arrangement. That said, it’s important whether she’s the kind of woman who makes you want to show that generosity—or has that certain feminine warmth, perhaps? If she’s someone you’ve already built a relationship with and would want to see again after the summer, no matter what happens, then it’s worth it. If she’s been cold or unresponsive, though, I might take this opportunity to end things. That said, the man who makes her act cold is partly at fault too.

I’m Meg, one of the female members. You’re quite the entertaining sucker, aren’t you?♪ Try thinking about why your monthly arrangement partner agreed to this kind of relationship with you. From what I can tell, she probably sees you as someone who’s genuinely fun—and big-hearted, too. If that’s the case, being so petty as to pay someone else but not her is just… honestly, it’s laughable. She’s waiting for you. Show her what you’re made of (*^^*) Especially at this time of year. Well, I suppose I think that way because I’m the type who’d say: “I’m sorry I made you feel lonely. When we meet next time, I’ll make it up to you with plenty of special attention (heart).” > Online date Lucky you, lucky you♪ You seem to be having so much fun lately—I was actually wondering when I should tease you about it♪ An aphrodisiac, hmm? Fufu.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. If you’ve been seeing each other for a long time, I don’t think it’s best to overthink things logically. In a sense, this is where his character and generosity are being tested. “Otoko-gi: A temperament that cannot stand by and watch someone vulnerable suffer; a manly nature; a chivalrous spirit.” — goo Dictionary If you can afford it, I think it would be better to give her the allowance regardless of whether you meet during this time. She’ll probably accept either choice for now, but once the situation settles down, she may remember that you didn’t support her back then. Even if she says she doesn’t need it, you could view giving her the allowance as something that may benefit you in the future. Of course, there’s always the possibility that things will end even though you’ve only been providing the allowance, so showing your generosity won’t always get through to the other person. Just to be safe, though, I do feel it might be better to meet in person when handing over the allowance. > From the woman’s perspective, would she consider this lucky, or would she feel bad about it? If she’s in a monthly arrangement, I think she would be the latter type. Isn’t that part of what she likes about him and why she agreed to a monthly arrangement? That said, she may also have come to like his somewhat wild, unpredictable side. In that case, she probably sees it as lucky.