I always look forward to reading all the various questions and answers here.

I’m Meg, one of the female members. I really want to see my papa again! Sorry for blurting that out here. You’re right. Given the timing, it makes sense to be more cautious than usual. You may also worry about being a burden. I’m relieved that this is such a perfectly reasonable question. Has your papa mentioned roughly how often he’d be able to see you each month? Since he’s suggested a monthly arrangement, I imagine you’ll gradually settle into a regular frequency for meeting. But you should also honestly tell him that you’d like to see him again—just without being too persistent. If he’s fond of you, he’ll surely promise that you’ll meet again. With COVID, I feel like we’re being put to the test—to see whether this is someone we truly want to continue seeing even through these circumstances. So it’s wonderful that he’s suggested a monthly arrangement. Recently, I’ve sometimes felt a little insecure, wondering whether I really count as someone in a monthly arrangement. But even when work is chaotic, he always replies to me. When that happens, I think, “Ahh, I’m glad he seems to be doing well today!” And even though he must be tired, he still took the time to reply—I’m so happy! (*^^*) That’s why, no matter how long we have to go without seeing each other, I still want to meet him again. I never fail to send him affectionate messages, either (lol). I hope things continue to go well between you two. I’m rooting for you♪

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > When it comes to invitations like “Would you like to meet?”, is it generally best to wait for the man to contact me? Basically, I think it’s better to wait. But since you said you’ve started a monthly arrangement, didn’t you discuss how often you would meet? If it’s around the time you would normally meet again—or if that time has already passed—it would be perfectly fine to invite him by saying, “When shall we get together next?” Of course, it depends on what kind of work he does, but I don’t think he would find it bothersome. He might reply with something like, “With COVID and everything, let’s wait a little longer,” or otherwise give you some kind of response.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. Basically, I think more women tend to wait for the man to make the first move. But—and this is important— Men are usually happy when a woman invites them out. They may wonder, “Does she need more money?” or “Does she see me as an ATM?” and all sorts of other thoughts might cross their minds. Even so, most men are pleased to be invited and will find themselves checking whether they’re free in their schedule. (Some male members who receive an unusually large number of offers may be an exception.) So something like: “When can we see each other next?” can be quite effective. Of course, if he didn’t feel that you were happy to see him, there’s a chance he won’t reply next time. So while you’re together, it’s probably important to show that you’re genuinely fond of him. As one of the female respondents here wrote, from a man’s perspective, if you ignore the part in parentheses: “(Because he has money, she) smiles, shows gratitude, replies, ‘I want to see you soon♡’ and ‘I love having sex with you♡.’” That seems extremely important. Also, if you can genuinely make him believe: “She thinks about sex with me all day long. Whenever we’re apart, she spends every night relieving herself while using the sex we had last time as her private fantasy. She’s an outrageously horny office lady. That’s why, from the moment she sees her darling papa, she’s even more desperate than a dog in heat, getting turned on by the slightest movement of his fingers during dinner and thinking, ‘Ahh♡ Let me go down on you right now♡ Push me down♡ Fill me up alreadyyy♡♡♡’” then he may want to see you again. Of course, from the woman’s perspective, this man seems to be someone she wants to cut ties with. Even so, being able to put yourself in a position where you hold the upper hand is quite impressive. Once you have a man completely captivated, he’ll come to see you even under circumstances like these. Besides, I think there are fewer men who aren’t going out at all. Even if they’re refraining from unnecessary outings, they’ll tell themselves: “Seeing the woman I love is necessary, right?” And then they go see her.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Basically, I think it’s best to wait for the man to invite you. ① A girl I absolutely adore Set the date for your next meeting while you’re still on the date. ② A girl I like Discuss dates soon after parting ways. ③ A girl I’d like to see again Invite her to set up a date after a few days. ④ A girl I wouldn’t mind seeing again Ask about her availability within a week. If you’re in category ①, I’m more than happy to receive frequent invitations and messages from you. I’ll make time to see you. Even if you’re not in category ①, it’s still nice to be invited by a woman, so I recommend reaching out without feeling shy. If he develops a better impression of you, there’s a chance you’ll become one of his favorites and move up in his priorities.