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Mar 25, 2020 17:38
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Unfortunately, my job-hunting schedule has overlapped with a date we arranged in advance, and I feel really bad about it.
I’m worried that he might dislike me if I postpone our date because of job hunting.
I’d like to know how everyone else handles situations like this. I’d also appreciate any advice!
4 answers
Meg
Female
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光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
I think it depends on the relationship you’ve built with the other person so far.
That said, I trust that everyone here is a successful gentleman, of course.
As long as he’s not the type to say things like:
“Hey, hey, why? How come? What do you mean, I’m not your priority?”
then I think it should be fine.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If you’ve built a relationship of trust through your usual interactions, I think most mature supporters will understand how difficult job hunting can be, so I don’t think they’ll dislike you.
I’m sure they also understand that you genuinely feel sorry about it.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
My job hunt is more important than dating too, so if something like that came up, I’d want her to prioritize job hunting above all else. Finding a job is important, so as U.S.T. says, I think other men would understand as well.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member named Basil.
Most people naturally prioritize their job hunt, so that’s understandable. If you’re usually open about things and have built a relationship of trust, it should be fine.
On the other hand, if you’re always canceling at the last minute, they may not believe you and just think you’re using it as an excuse.