Tips Mar 24, 2020 11:15

Should I ask this question, or should I contact the staff directly… To the angry questioner.

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Would it be impossible for someone like me—a lower-tier woman in her forties—to make a reverse offer? Would that go against the club’s purpose? I feel rather lonely thinking that someone like Mr. Saito, whom the previous female member presumably admires, would never even notice someone like me. But I feel like suggesting to the previous questioner: “Why don’t we both take part in arrangements that are more suited to our own circumstances?”
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. > Is it impossible for me to make a reverse offer? If we check with the other person and they agree, something like a reverse offer may be possible. It would be along the lines of: “This woman says she’d like you to make her an offer. What would you like to do?” However, the man would still be charged the standard setting fee, so if she isn’t his type, the reverse offer wouldn’t go through. Since men normally search for someone themselves and make offers, you should probably assume that, in most cases, they won’t make one. Also, if a staff member who knows the man’s preferences to some extent thinks he would never make an offer to this woman, they would probably decline by saying something like, “We don’t have a reverse-offer system.” So while it isn’t impossible, you should understand that the chances of it leading to a date are extremely low. Also, this is an anonymous question box. Since we don’t know who the anonymous respondent is, there’s no one to pass the reverse offer on to in the first place. That said, if—just if—this applies to you, and you were the person who submitted the recent question, or the person who asked someone else to write it for you, you must have felt relieved. “Thank goodness, they haven’t figured out it was me.” (lol) But it’s too early to relax. If the recent question is suspected of violating the law and the matter develops into a lawsuit, it may become possible to identify who wrote it. Please be careful.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members. W-whoa??? This is getting kind of interesting?! So, basically, it sounds like you’re trying to calm down that angry male questioner from earlier and making a reverse offer to him…am I reading that right? Well said, you around-40 woman! I can’t help rooting for you (*^^*) Unfortunately, though, reverse offers aren’t really possible here. You might want to ask the staff about it. Ah, that’s assuming you’re actually serious, of course. (Though the staff member you consult might be at a loss for what to do.) > The “Manly Men Roundtable” Once you start thinking about it, you just— Can’t stop♪ Won’t stop♪ Like Kappa Ebisen♪ Sencho’s mind sounds like a fun place to be (*^^*)
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. By “the previous questioner,” you mean the person who was upset about Mr. Saito’s column. And since this questioner is probably male, “the previous female member” must have been a mistake—it should be “all female members,” right? I think “being active within your means” is a good mindset. There’s no end to looking at people above you and feeling envious. As I also wrote in my response regarding Mr. Saito, what matters is not how other people are doing, but whether you’re satisfied with the club’s services yourself. Also, can women actually make reverse offers to men in the first place? Isn’t it just a matter of putting a “You seem great” mark on the profiles of men who have made their profiles public? If a woman asks the staff, do they contact individual men she likes after reviewing their profiles? Sorry for turning this into a reverse question.
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