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Mar 9, 2020 18:56
5 answers
Meg
Female
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Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
A cancellation...? That really hurts. (ToT)
As Marika said, I think you’ll need to reach out to him.
Depending on his response, you may also be able to tell whether he simply used COVID as a convenient excuse to turn you down.
I hope his offer was genuine.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If it was canceled rather than postponed, I think it’s best to assume it has simply fallen through.
The man may be thinking that he’ll make another offer when the opportunity arises, but by then, many new women will likely have registered. As a result, men often end up making offers to the newcomers instead.
I can’t say for sure whether that’s the case with this particular person, but I think it would be best to move on and wait for a new offer.
Other
I’m Marika, one of the female members.
I wonder whether this is a cancellation or simply a postponement. No one knows when COVID will finally be brought under control.
If it hasn’t been long since you were notified of the cancellation, why not ask the staff to pass along a message like, “I’d be happy to meet again once things have settled down”? There probably isn’t much else you can do for now.
Once COVID settles down, he may make you another offer if he’s still interested in you. On the other hand, if he’s captivated by a beautiful new girl who has just joined, you may not hear from him again…
For your own peace of mind, I think it’s better to go about your daily life without worrying too much.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
If we’re both busy, plans may occasionally fall through, but I feel like rescheduling is more common.
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member named “Paper Airplane.”
If he was particularly interested in you, he’ll probably try to arrange another date.
Since he said it was due to COVID, I’d say the chances are probably slightly better than 50/50.
It’s possible the opportunity could pass if he gets distracted by a new member or another favorite, but since he already made you an offer, there’s a good chance he still genuinely wants to meet you if that’s the reason this time.