Hi, the other day I told a female acquaintance about a club like this.
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It took me a whole year to finally receive around four offers, but she hasn’t even been here a month and has already gotten four or five. Apparently, the day after her interview and registration, before her profile was even finished, she was asked if she’d like to attend a VIP dinner because there was an event coming up. She’s a beautiful girl who could easily pass the screening for a high-end members-only lounge, so I suppose it’s only natural, but I’m still overwhelmed by feelings of inferiority. I guess introducing someone you know to a place like this can have unexpected downsides. This is just me venting and muttering. She’s a genuinely nice person, so I can’t bring myself to meet her or talk to anyone about it. Sorry for venting here.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
Being introduced by someone is still manageable.
But when two people come in to register together, things can turn out even worse.
Some time ago, two close female friends came in for interviews together. They said they were going to share a place afterward.
They registered in the same category.
Offers started pouring in for one of them—about five all at once—but the other woman didn’t receive any offers.
About a month later, the woman who hadn’t received any offers finally got one. However, when we contacted her, she never replied.
So I asked the woman who had come in with her, “Are you able to get in touch with her?” She just replied, “I don’t know.”
I have no idea what happened between two people who had been close enough to say they were going to share a place.
But I suspect something similar to what happened to the questioner may have occurred.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Is she really a “nice person” from your perspective? Surely she has at least one unpleasant side, right? lol
Did she really need to tell you she’d been invited to a VIP dinner? She could’ve kept that to herself, couldn’t she?
Maybe it would actually be easier if you used this as an opportunity to sort out what you dislike about this acquaintance and just started disliking her.
Then, for some reason, she might start trying to get close to you again—and you might even find it a little easier to forgive her.
I’m the kind of mean person who builds closeness by agreeing with people’s complaints like this, so… sorry.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha!
That sounds good to me.
Other people are other people, and I’m me.
No need to get jealous!
If you focus on doing what you can, good things will come your way eventually!
That’s what I believe…
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I’m Marika, a female member.
Some women don’t receive any offers at all, so getting four in a year is already something to be proud of, isn’t it!?
Universe has a class system so that even women who aren’t exceptionally beautiful can receive offers. Some men don’t necessarily prefer stunningly beautiful women—or may feel they’d be out of their league.
Understand your own strengths and build on them!
Don’t envy other people!
What matters is that you’re able to enjoy your club activities in your own way. (Though I’m sure you already know that and just wanted to get it off your chest here.)
I’m neither particularly beautiful nor model-thin, but I’m enjoying my activities.
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I’m Meg, one of the female members.
Please feel free to vent here as much as you need.
And as Mac suggested, why not become an affiliate?
When it comes to women, there can be jealousy, envy, and all sorts of things.
You’ll be fine as long as you continue receiving offers at that pace. Don’t dwell on things that will only make you feel bad by comparing yourself to others.
You have a lovely personality, too. You couldn’t say it directly to her, so you came here to tell me instead. That’s very kind of you (*^^*)
Your friend may eventually go through some difficult times herself, and the day may come when she turns to you for advice. When that happens, I hope you’ll be able to treat her with the same kindness as always. And please make sure you have enough emotional room for yourself while pursuing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’m a male club member, “Paper Airplane.”
When it comes to introducing women to the club, they’re generally at a decent level compared with elsewhere, right?
Even though it doesn’t affect me personally, it still makes you want to lament the situation.
Ah, I guess that wasn’t actually a question...
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I’m a male member named Basil.
Even if you don’t introduce him/her, that won’t increase your offers by the same amount. If she has a good personality, she’s probably grateful, so why not set your pride aside and share your activity updates with her so you can get some of the spillover?
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