I’m Meg, one of the female members.
From your writing, I can picture a really lovely young woman♪
Keep it up, and before you know it, you’ll have both your papa’s heart and his “little guy” wrapped around your finger (*^^*)
I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
If he invites you to meet again the very next day, there’s a very high chance the relationship will continue for a long time.
If you’re genuinely thinking of focusing on just him, then if you like him even more when you meet next, tell him that you’re considering leaving the club—or taking a break from it. I’m sure he’ll be completely smitten.
At that point, things like adult compatibility may no longer matter to him.
Once you’ve confirmed that he feels the same way, actually leaving the club—or taking a break—will likely allow you to maintain a very good relationship.
At that point, whether you have an adult relationship or not, and whether it happens before or after, probably won’t matter. (That is, if you’re an A- or B-type member.)
If you’re able to tell him that you want to focus on just him, I think leaving the club or taking a break is probably the key to making things work out best.
If you use those words but neither leave nor take a break, it may cause him to lose interest.
At this point, you may start worrying, “But what if I leave the club and then the allowance or my overall satisfaction isn’t enough?”
However, if you both genuinely want to focus exclusively on each other, there’s a good chance you won’t have much to worry about.
If I say too much here, you may come across as a woman calculating what she can get in return, or as someone overly experienced and accustomed to these arrangements. That could actually make things less likely to work out.
So from here on, I think you should move forward innocently and naturally, holding both hope and concern while accepting that the future is still unknown.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
So it came up during dinner too, huh? In that case, he clearly likes you.
If you hit it off during your dinner date, I think you should be fine. Compatibility also has an emotional side to it.
It’s not about whether you’re good or bad at it. It’s more about whether you can enjoy it together.
If you go forward with the feelings you have now, I think everything will be fine.
I’m Basil, a male member.
I think most older men would be happy if you simply expressed your gratitude sincerely.
Compatibility is also influenced to some extent by your attitude, so keep that feeling in mind and do your best.
