I work at a hotel.
After dinner dates, there have been a couple of times when my papa booked the hotel where I work for our adult relationship (intimate).
Obviously, I can’t go to my workplace, so even though he went to the trouble of booking a nice room, we ended up changing to a love hotel a few times.
From the man’s perspective, I imagine it feels like a waste of the hotel fee, and from my perspective, I’m worried because if I refuse, he’ll realize where I work (;_;)
Is there any good way to handle this…?
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I agree with Marika’s opinion. If you say something like:
“I’d prefer to meet somewhere other than ○○ Station. It’s because my workplace is nearby, but please don’t mention that.”
it will be included in the offer information.
You may still receive an offer from a man who hasn’t read that section, suggesting that station as the meeting place. In that case, if you reply, “I’d prefer to meet at a different station,” I think he’ll probably agree to change the location.
If the meeting place changes, it seems unlikely that you would use that particular hotel, although this may be difficult in smaller regional cities.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I agree—it would be a shame to let that opportunity go to waste.
As everyone’s saying, there seem to be ways to work it out (lol).
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I’m Basil, a male member.
If this has happened two or three times, I’m guessing you’re in a regional area where there are only a limited number of hotels above a certain standard.
If you write “No XX area” in your profile, it could work against you when receiving offers, since it would limit the possible date locations or require traveling farther afield.
When you receive an offer, I think it would be best to reiterate that you’re not comfortable with the area around the hotel, including after dinner.
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I’m a male member, Kamihikoki.
That’s a really difficult one.
You’ll have to tell either the club or the man you’re meeting, at the very least, that you work at a hotel.
Even women in the B category get plenty of offers, so I think your only option may be to switch to B.
Men can tell when someone has changed from C to B, so I think they’ll also understand that you’re more of a C-type B.
P.S. Marika
I see—impressive. I hadn’t thought of that approach!
In that case, it’s probably best to make just one small, casual request. At a club, if you make one request, they may get the impression that you’re the type who will keep asking for this and that, and tend to avoid you.
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I’m Marika, a female member.
You wouldn’t want your workplace to be identified, would you? In that case, when arranging your schedule for an offer, why not say, “I’d like to avoid the ○○ area because it’s near my workplace”?
That way, you won’t have to make it public in your profile. And if you ask the staff to pass the message along in advance, you might worry about whether they actually communicated it properly. I think it’s safest and most reliable to mention it yourself each time.
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