Would men be put off if a girl asked them to choke her on the very first date? I’m wondering if it would be better to wait until we’re closer, but I really want him to do it!
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Also, would it be a turn-off to ask him to pull my hair hard during oral?
Sorry for asking something weird on a wholesome Q&A site!
I’m Joe, a columnist.
I may be a hopeless romantic despite my age, but something as mild as choking wouldn’t faze me—in fact, I’d welcome it. That said, while I have a pretty broad range of interests, I’m strictly a fantasy person. When it comes to practice, I’m nowhere near as capable as I might sound. So there’s a good chance I won’t be able to fulfill the questioner’s request.
No, but please don’t worry. In that case, if I may be so bold, I’ll arrange a professional choke artist for you instead. In return, though, please let me watch. I’ll open the vintage wine I received from Sakura-chan.
I hope you have a wonderful encounter.
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I don’t think any male member would be put off by something like that.
However, a man with no experience in choking may not know how to do it. If you notice from your partner’s reaction that they’re interested, I think it would be good to gently teach him the basics.
I don’t think grabbing someone’s hair would put him off either, but some guidance would be necessary there as well.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
Hehe, I wonder what made you think this was a wholesome Q&A forum…
You seem to really like being submissive, huh?
I bet there are quite a few gentlemen who’d be thrilled to “fly” like Paper Airplane-san.
My papa (a male supporter) might be that type too… though he takes it easy and feels things out with me first (^_^;)
Why not put it in your profile and make it known?
I’m sure you’ll get offers from people who enjoy BDSM.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I’ll take the bait and soar high into the sky.
Either one would put me off on a first date, but if we met through a club, I might be okay with bringing it up.
Choking might actually be easier to play with, since you can be more forceful with the neck, mouth, cheeks, and shoulders.
As for the hair… I’m fine with holding someone’s head in place, but I don’t really like grabbing their hair that hard.
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