I’m Basil, a male club member.
I’m almost never asked whether I’ve heard from the club. Once in a while, when my age comes up, people are surprised.
From the neck up, I apparently look about 10 to 15 years younger than my actual age. Unfortunately, below the neck, my belly is flabby and things aren’t as lively where it matters, so the illusion quickly falls apart.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Whether I’m at the club or going about my everyday life, people usually think I’m about 5–10 years older than I really am. I’ve been told this for years: “People like that end up looking younger once they’re adults. Eventually, the roles will reverse.”
So, when exactly is that supposed to happen? ^^;
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I’m Meg, a female member.
When the date was arranged, I was told that he was a gentleman in his 60s, so I didn’t ask his exact age myself before our first meeting.
Isn’t that enough to know at first?
Even among men in their 60s, everyone is different, so you’re bound to feel nervous until the first date. Once you actually meet, you may find yourself secretly thinking things like, “He’s more ___ than I expected” (*^^*)
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I do feel that, just as some women care about age and others don’t, there are women on both sides.
The women who care will ask how old you are.
But what about the women who don’t ask?
Maybe they want to know but refrain from asking out of consideration for the other person—or perhaps they don’t ask because knowing wouldn’t change anything anyway.
I wonder which it is.
In the case of male members, they can usually find out without asking because women’s profiles include all sorts of information. But if there were no profiles, I imagine most men would ask a woman’s age.
When it comes to that kind of consideration, men have zero of it. (Haha)
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
In my case, she didn’t ask when we first met. I brought it up myself the second time we met.
Until then, she had estimated my age by looking at me and comparing me with the men around her. She guessed slightly younger than I actually am, but her estimate was pretty close.
I took the lower estimate as a polite gesture.（笑）
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