I’m Meg, a female member.
I’ve given birth before—and to ? children, no less. So I’m definitely looser than women who haven’t had children.
You’re still totally fine! I’m sure you’re much more likely to become his main partner than I am.
Have confidence (*^^*)
I’m a male member, BB7.
When I was younger, I once met a woman who was surprisingly loose. I barely felt any stimulation, and as a result, I lost my erection partway through. I was young, so I somehow managed to finish, but I probably couldn’t do that now...
I’m probably average-sized. I’ve had plenty of experiences since then, but she was the only woman who felt that way, so I do think she was unusually loose.
We eventually parted ways, and she never became my primary partner. Still, I think it was simply a matter of compatibility.
There are probably men who are large enough that an average woman would find it painful to take them, so I don’t think you can know the answer without trying at least once. Take the plunge and give it a try.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office will answer as well.
Can a woman really know for herself whether she’s “loose”?
I wonder if she only thinks that because someone told her so.
Then again, Mac-san wrote the same thing.
If someone told you that, it may simply be their impression and not actually true.
Compatibility with your partner matters too. I’m sure there are men who are a perfect fit for you, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
Also, if you mean that you measured it with a vaginal pressure meter, you might want to have someone verify whether the number actually matches reality.
Even if the number is low, you may still be quite tight in practice.
Whether you can become a papa’s primary partner depends on how important he considers intimacy.
Some men will continue seeing a woman if she’s someone they can make new discoveries with or simply enjoy spending time with.
Personality compatibility plays a role here too, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
I’m a male member named Seattle.
For those who are larger, women who have given birth can sometimes feel better. With women who are close to being virgins, it can be hard to continue because they’re tight, penetration is difficult, and they seem to be in pain even with plenty of lubricant. I feel terribly sorry, so I apologize and we just have dinner.
I hope you find someone you’re compatible with as you continue meeting people.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male club member.
You absolutely can become someone’s favorite!
From a man’s perspective, a woman who is very tight can feel incredibly good in itself. But women like that are quite rare, and because it’s also very delicate, it can take a considerable amount of time before you can have sex comfortably and successfully together.
So it has nothing to do with overall sexual satisfaction.
There’s really no need to worry about it at all.
If she’s too tight, the man may feel like he’s about to finish right away, while women are very sensitive, so it can actually become difficult for both partners to explore things to the point of maximum satisfaction.
In that particular case, I kept exploring together with her, and it took more than ten years for us to really develop things. Of course, factors other than tightness were involved too.
She was the only woman I’ve ever met who felt so good—enveloping everything and gripping it almost as if she were drawing me in.
Of course, someone with just the right amount of tightness is ideal, but even if the person you fall for isn’t especially tight, there are advantages to that too.
If she makes up for it with her mouth, the experience can still be highly satisfying. She also tried hard to tighten up, but I barely noticed any effect. That kind of back-and-forth can be endearing and enjoyable in its own way.
If you like the person, it really doesn’t bother you.
Besides, these days I usually use a condom, so I can hardly tell the difference in tightness anyway. Even without one, very few women are exceptionally tight—the difference was obvious with only one woman—and it’s also rare to find someone who feels genuinely loose. Things change after childbirth, but ultimately, a man’s level of arousal depends on how aroused and responsive the woman is, so I don’t think you need to worry about it at all.
And since this is about encounters through a club, there’s even less reason to worry.
As long as you respond and show pleasure naturally, without overdoing it, I don’t think it will cause any problems.
P.S. Mac,
So that’s what you prioritize. If someone feels loose, it can be difficult to finish while wearing a condom, but with younger women you meet through a club, I suppose that concern is less likely to come up?
P.P.S.
Sometimes a woman who feels loose tells me, “You went smoothly today.” I can finish quickly because I first get close with oral and then slip in. If the timing is off, I can’t finish even if I desperately try to imagine another woman…
Since she gets me there orally first, it becomes less about exploring and more like sex that doesn’t take much effort.
When things don’t go well, she asks things like, “Did you sleep with your wife?” or “Did you masturbate?” So I just tell her that I masturbated recently.
Even if I had been with someone the day before, it wouldn’t matter after she had done that much orally. But I don’t like being told afterward, “There wasn’t much,” or “It was too thin,” so…
P.P.P.S.
I just remembered the biggest advantage of a woman who feels loose. When we first met and were still excited about each other, I could stay inside and keep moving for an hour or even two. She was the only one I could do that with… though I could only do it because it was several decades ago.
These days, that would be impossible, and my sensitivity is completely different from when I was younger. I’m also at an age where I feel I can no longer even tell the difference in tightness as clearly as I used to.
