I’ll be starting university this spring. I’m thinking of joining Univa within a year of enrolling, so I’ve been browsing the anonymous Q&A box to prepare myself and learn the basics.
I got the impression that many of the female members are elegant, mature women, and I became intimidated, wondering whether someone as inexperienced and sheltered as me would even be welcome.
However, I don’t want to give up, so I’m thinking of starting to study manners and etiquette.
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When joining, how much should I know about manners and etiquette to feel that I’m not embarrassing myself as a female member of Univa?
I’m Meg, a female member.
Before a meal:
“Let’s eat.”
Afterward:
“Thank you for the meal.”
In everyday life:
“Good morning.”
“Hello.”
“Good evening.”
“Good night.”
And “thank you” and “I’m sorry.”
Being able to say these things is enough. At the very least, I hope to raise my children to be that kind of person.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
Men often look for women who seem appropriate for their age.
For female college students, I don’t think they’re expecting much in the way of manners, at least for now. It seems they’re looking for students to simply act like students.
Those who expect a certain level of manners tend to make offers to women of a more suitable age.
As for knowledge, I think women who know a lot are impressive, but knowledge isn’t something you can easily build up right away.
I think you’d be perfectly fine registering with Universe just as you are.
Once you register, please apply to us respondents here right away, too. Any member can apply. (笑)
We look forward to meeting you for an interview.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Since you’re looking through the anonymous Q&A, this is slightly beside the point of your question, but I recommend looking at past questions as well for reference.
The people answering do change from time to time, and the circumstances surrounding dating clubs also evolve. So even when the question is the same, the emphasis in the answer may vary slightly depending on the responder’s personality and the situation at the time.
Of course, what matters most is the present, so you should give more weight to recent questions. That said, even if you go back through the older posts, the essential points of the questions and answers haven’t changed.
Now, as for manners and such, I think what everyone has said is perfectly fine.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Their freshness matters more than knowledge or etiquette, so please come exactly as you are—a blank canvas, without any prior experience!
I currently have two favorite girls, aged 18–21, whom I see every week, and I can’t thank the club enough.
Wishing you lots of happiness and good fortune!
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I’m a male member, Seattle.
If you’re genuinely asking because you want to learn proper etiquette, I’m sure you’ll be fine. Having that attitude means you’re already off to a good start.
If you’re 18 now, you’d be in the same grade as my daughter. I can’t help but root for high school seniors, like the fourth-generation members of Nogizaka46 and Yurina Hirate.
I hope your future is filled with hope.
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