I’m a male member who joined the club three months ago. I sometimes wonder what kind of feedback the women I’ve dated have given the club about me. I feel that knowing things like what I could improve to make our dates more enjoyable would help me going forward. Would my assigned branch be able to share that feedback with me if I asked?

Maezawa from the Planning and Strategy Office here as well. You can ask your assigned branch about the feedback. However, if “No” was selected when asked whether the feedback could be shared with the other person, we can’t tell you what it said. Negative feedback is often marked “No,” so in most cases, I don’t think we’ll be able to share it. Women often put up with things in front of men. If the club were to reveal what she endured, it would defeat the purpose of her having endured it in the first place. That said, I personally try to casually hint to the man, when there’s no way to identify the woman, that “That sort of thing isn’t okay.” But I apparently make it too subtle for the message to get through. Sorry ＞＜ (That said, I’m probably the most direct person in the company...) It’s really not easy.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I think most people have a rough idea of how they’re viewed themselves, but in general, other people’s evaluations tend to be considerably harsher than we expect. Also, while most of what’s written is probably true, some people may exaggerate in either direction—praising someone too much or being overly critical—so it may be best to read those reviews with a certain amount of caution as well（笑).

I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member. Depending on the situation, they may tell members things that could work in their favor. They might share advice like “You should do this,” things you were praised for, or compliments from someone who asked them to pass them along.