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Feb 13, 2020 12:07
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I know the only way to find out why someone changes her relationship type is to ask her or the branch staff, but based on your experiences, what do you think women who change their relationship type are feeling or thinking?
Here’s what prompted my question: I saw someone whose profile made me think she seemed wonderful and that I’d like to meet her, but her relationship type was A. Then one day, I noticed that she had changed it to C.
I’m considering whether to send her an offer, and wanted to hear everyone’s opinions and advice.
For example, do women who change from relationship type B to C or A to C tend to be hoping to receive offers? Would you send an offer to someone like that?
And when someone changes from D to C or C to B, could it be because she’s tired of men being too proactive—or has become fed up with it—and wants to take things more slowly so she can get a better sense of a male member’s personality?
3 answers
Meg
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Age: 50s
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I’m Meg, a female member.
“Premium” would be one thing, but “premuam”… really?
And aren’t you referring to Platinum members?
You say you don’t worry about the little things, but you sure do check them pretty closely, don’t you? ( -_・)?
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Meg
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I think you may actually have a better time with someone who changed to Type C than with someone who chose Type C outright from the beginning.
Even if she switched from Type A, the fact that she chose Type C suggests that things may go smoothly as a Type C arrangement.
As for why she changed, maybe she didn’t have the courage to choose Type C right away and started with Type A.
Or perhaps she was Type A but switched to Type C because she wasn’t receiving many offers. In that case, she might effectively be more like Type B—or even still Type A—but I think that’s relatively unlikely.
Since you seem to be comfortable with someone who’s okay with Type C, I think her switch to Type C is actually an opportunity, and there’s no need to hesitate.
Women don’t simply choose based on the man they’re dealing with. Many of them genuinely don’t know at first which type suits them best, so changing types often doesn’t mean that much. It may be better to view it as her adjusting her profile to reflect her true type.
I think it’s perfectly fine to meet her without worrying too much!
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
If someone changes her dating type to be more proactive, I assume it’s because she wants to receive offers.
A woman who wants offers and has made up her mind—that’s exactly what her dating type indicates, so I think it’s fine to make her an offer as is.
The problem is when a woman changes her dating type just to receive offers, without actually being prepared for anything more.
In that case, even if you go on the date assuming she’ll follow the terms of her dating type, she may not actually be ready, and there’s a good chance you’ll end up parting ways after dinner only.
It’s difficult to tell which type of woman she is. The club also confirms which situation applies to each woman. So to some extent, I think you can trust the dating type after it has been changed.
That said, some women lie without being fazed even when the club checks with them, so it’s difficult to know how much weight to give it.
(If the club learns through feedback from a male member that she lied, she’ll be forcibly removed from the club.)
> Her dating type was A. Then one day, I saw that it had changed to C.
Just to be safe, try asking the club why she changed her dating type. After that, since this may be your chance, I think you should make her an offer.
My guess is that she’s probably a C who’s closer to B. If you invite her skillfully, there’s a chance you could have an enjoyable time together.
I don’t think being too aggressive would work. Treat her as you would someone with type A, enjoy the date itself, and then, at the end, invite her as a type C while checking how she felt about the date up to that point.
Something along those lines, perhaps?
P.S. Romane received an offer because Romane herself was appealing.