This is Mac. A girl I met for lunch today told me about one way men use dating apps to have sex and skip out on payment.
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He told her, “Because of my company’s payment schedule, I’ll pay you all at the end of the month,” and apparently they were together three times that month.
He claimed to be the president of a staffing company, and she trusted him because searching his name brought up the company’s website.
He was probably just a non-permanent worker registered with that company.
When the end of the month came, she contacted him, but they could hardly arrange to meet. They finally met the following month, were intimate again, and, as expected, he still didn’t pay. He said, “I’ll pay you next time we meet,” and tried to schedule another date.
Instead of blocking her, he kept saying he’d pay next time. Then they would meet, he’d be intimate with her, and still not pay—a never-ending loop.
In the end, she gave up. There really are some shameless men out there.
That’s the background. If you know any other interesting tricks men use on dating apps to get intimate and skip payment, please tell me. I’m thinking of sharing them with her the next time we meet, so we can laugh about it and cheer her up.
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I don’t use apps at all, so I’m not familiar with them, but I feel like both men and women can get deceived—or become hopelessly hooked—by the opposite sex.
There’s a woman around 30 I know who’s extremely aggressive, almost like a man, and completely hooked on a host. She doesn’t just spend money at his club—she gives him ¥50,000 or ¥70,000 to go on dates, and they’re intimate too.
Everyone around her tells her, “You absolutely need to stop,” and even suggests cutting ties with him, but she gets hooked again, thinking she’s loved.
She even assumes that the apartment he moved into was for her...
Up to this point, it sounds like a story you could hear anywhere. But this woman is unbelievably beautiful—stunning enough to leave you speechless. Why would someone that gorgeous do this...?
Does being beautiful make her think that she, and she alone, is genuinely loved?
And then—wait, what? I thought someone that aggressively forward would definitely be single, but she actually has a husband? Maybe because she’s beautiful, he puts up with everything and thinks she’s perfect just as she is? That can’t be real, can it?
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), women don’t have to worry about being made to lavish money on someone, or being intimate and still having to pay for it.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m pretty sure I’m incredibly easy to fool!
I’m so glad I worked up the courage to go to my interview with Universe (*^^*)
Thank you so much (*＞∇＜)ﾉ
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
For example, let’s say they agreed on ¥25,000. After it’s over, the man hands her a sealed envelope. It says ¥30,000 on it, and he asks her to give him ¥5,000 in change.
She hands him the ¥5,000.
After they part ways, she opens the envelope and finds it’s empty…
Apparently, there are men on dating sites who scam women out of ¥5,000 this way. Since no one has their real name or address on file when they meet through a dating site, it’s frightening how these scammers never seem to stop.
With Universe, the club properly keeps records of members’ real names and addresses, so I don’t think men would try anything like that.
And if someone did, as long as the woman properly reports it to the police, we would fully cooperate with the investigation.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Mac, you’re quite the source of information too（笑）
I’ve never even considered anything like that, but that tactic is pretty clever—and so is she（笑）
It’s impressive how some people really put their minds to things（笑）
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