Is there a way to turn down a man who keeps touching me—so much that I think, “That’s enough already...

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Is there a way to turn down a man who keeps touching me—so much that I think, “That’s enough already”—without hurting his feelings? I start to feel worn out when he keeps touching me for two hours or more after we’re intimate, but I don’t want to ruin the mood, so I’m at a loss.

前澤 · Answer

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.

How about turning the tables and taking the initiative instead?  
Right after it’s over, try focusing on the man himself—

Then ask whether he’s going to say, “I just can’t anymore…”

If he says he can’t, then I can say I can’t either, and it might even out.

Though if he ends up enjoying it, I’m sorry ＞＜

西中 恵 · Answer

I’m Meg, a female member.

Haha, I’m sure he just can’t resist touching a young woman’s body.

How about something like this?

“Thank you for always making me feel so good and satisfying me. But right now, I’d like to bask in the afterglow for a while... Could you please give me some space for a little bit?”

If you’re closer, you could probably phrase it more casually.

ジョー・ルビコン · Answer

I’m Joe, a columnist.

The phrase I never understand in questions like this is “without hurting the man.” Let me be blunt: there’s no way to do that. In fact, aren’t you the one being hurt here?

You absolutely hate this situation, don’t you? Then what do you mean by “I don’t want to ruin the mood”? The mood has already been ruined.

If you still don’t want to ruin the mood, don’t ask this question—just endure it to the end. Please value yourself a little more.

Is there a way to turn down a man who keeps touching me—so much that I think, “That’s enough already”—without hurting his feelings? I start to feel worn out when he keeps touching me for two hours or more after we’re intimate, but I don’t want to ruin the mood, so I’m at a loss.

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