Tips Jan 26, 2020 12:06

The affair involving an actor named Masahiro Higashide (never heard of him) is making headlines.

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What’s so wrong with it? Men cheat—it’s because they’re men. Especially when they’re handsome. Women will come after them in droves. Of course he’s going to take advantage of the opportunity. I’ve never once thought cheating was wrong. Thinking that way just makes you a slave to the system. What nonsense. To all the men and women in the dating club, what do you make of this ridiculous media circus?
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > What exactly is wrong with it? As long as multiple people exist and live together, there will always be majority opinions. I think that majority opinion is what we call common sense. And because most people consider it “wrong,” it is considered wrong. Also, from the perspective of the person who was cheated on, it can be something so unforgivable that this is another reason it’s seen as wrong. Even if you personally think you’ve done nothing wrong, the majority opinion in society is still that it’s wrong. That said, there are also people like you who don’t think it’s wrong. I suppose that comes from the idea that if no one finds out, it’s as though nothing happened. There are many different opinions and many different ways to live. I think part of what makes life interesting is that it isn’t defined solely by the majority opinion.
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I’m Meg, a female member. Women cheat too, you know. But only if they can make sure not even the slightest hint is discovered. Are you sure your wife is okay?
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I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane. Men are creatures who want everyone to like them, while women tend to want to be the only one—or at least the favorite. So even when a woman has been deceived, she assumes the man was seduced by the other woman rather than considering that she herself was somehow inferior. The resentment and hostility between women can be frightening, so perhaps the woman ends up being viewed negatively and treated like Becky, while the man, Higashide, isn’t affected nearly as much. There have even been men like Okamura coming to his defense. I think women simply can’t understand the mindset of men who cheat because things are going well with their wives or girlfriends—in other words, because they already have someone and feel secure enough to be popular. Just a moment ago, Pin子 Izumi said on TV that the other woman probably wanted to break them up. That’s such a typically female desire to think, “I’m the one who’s better,” isn’t it? Scary...
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I’m Seattle, a male member. I can sympathize with Higashide—if Erika Karata came on to you, of course you’d be tempted. That said, he’s a celebrity whose image of marital bliss is part of why he gets commercials, so this could be career-ending. He probably should have divorced, but I guess it’s too late now. I was looking forward to the sequel to *The Confidence Man JP*, but I’m worried it’ll actually make it to theaters.
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