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Is it normal for a papa to try to get intimate in the bath when he invites you to a hot spring?

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I get invited to places like Arima Onsen by my papa around this time of year. Of course, we already have an adult relationship (intimate), and I’m perfectly willing to do it this time too, but don’t men always try to make a move while you’re bathing together? They don’t actually go all the way—instead, they just keep touching you persistently. Then, after getting out of the bath, they eat dinner as if nothing happened, and afterward start the adult relationship (intimate) from the beginning again… Why do they have that routine? I’m uncomfortable with it, so even though I love hot springs, I end up declining the invitations. But I can’t exactly say before going, “Please don’t touch me while we’re bathing!”… Is this normal for men? Is there any way to get them to stop?
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > Is this normal for men? Is there any way to get him to stop? It seems fairly common, though I’ve never conducted a survey of male members asking, “Do you touch her in the bath?” I also think it’s normal for men to want to touch women. In fact, if he stopped touching you, you might want to consider that he could be losing interest. I can’t think of a way to make him stop, but perhaps you could avoid it by getting intimate before taking a bath, then bathing while he’s in his post-intimacy “sage mode.” Though I’m starting to wonder whether men at dating clubs ever enter sage mode at all.
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I’m Joe, a columnist. As for whether it’s normal or not, it’s probably normal for most men. In fact, I’d guess that even more men would say, “What’s wrong with that?” Please keep that in mind first. With that said: 1. I don’t really consider the half-hearted play in the bath to be foreplay, though? 2. If you can’t accept No. 1, please brush him off in a cute and slightly sexy way. Examples that had Joe dancing with joy: 1. She exposed her most intimate parts right in front of me while saying, “The fun comes later, tee-hee.” 2. She snapped, “Don’t touch me, you dirty old pervert!” 3. She washed my hair while saying, “Naughty, naughty boy.” An example that left Joe feeling dejected: She brushed me off with a smile-less, “Don’t touch me in the bath!” Please use these as a reference—or are they not helpful at all?!
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