I have no experience with escorts or host clubs at all, and I’m thinking about jumping straight into compensated dating. Would that put me at a disadvantage?
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I’m worried about whether I’ll be able to handle the financial arrangements between a man and a woman smoothly.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
If you gather the right information before getting started, I don’t think you’ll be at a disadvantage.
That said, rather than assuming things will go smoothly from the start, it’s probably best to approach your first couple of dates with the mindset that they’re practice.
Once you relax and stop putting so much pressure on yourself, you might even hit it off with your very first date.
Still, I think your chances of avoiding failure improve if you take it step by step—for example, starting with a Type D woman, followed by a Type C woman.
Of course, if you’re happy just having an enjoyable conversation, you’ll probably get more satisfaction by offering to meet a Type A or Type B woman from the beginning.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
Even if you have no experience with the sex industry or hostess clubs, some women in dating clubs also work in those fields, so approaching one of them is basically the same thing.
And it’s not just women from the sex industry or hostess clubs—some have also become highly experienced through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). To women like that, wouldn’t a man who isn’t used to playing the field look like an easy mark?
Whatever you do, don’t take things like these at face value:
“It was dinner only, and everyone else paid ¥50,000.”
“It’s my first offer,” even though she’s been registered for a long time.
“I’m not seeing anyone else,” even though she seems popular.
Or, “I really like you, [name]!”
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
There’s really no need to worry about the concerns you have about getting started. If you proceed to the date with guidance from the club branch representative, the woman will take the lead from there, so you’ll be fine.
Just to be safe, it might be best to initially offer to meet someone who has dating experience and is a Type C or D. If possible, I’d recommend choosing a private room and talking over a meal.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Without anything to compare it to, would you really be satisfied with a relationship involving money, or would you feel empty?
If you’re in your 30s or 40s, maybe you should experience being genuinely popular in ordinary dating, too.
Once you’ve ridden the bullet train, you can’t go back to a local train, can you?
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