Tips Jan 21, 2020 19:17

Sorry to keep coming back with questions. I’m the one who asked why a man won’t tell me his home address, even though he knows the woman’s address. Thank you all for your answers.

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I’m involved in show business myself, so I thought I was choosing people I could trust and dating them while taking on certain risks. That’s why I’ve come to realize that I was feeling frustrated and unsettled by the fact that, simply because he’s a married man, he was “acting all high and mighty”—as they apparently say in Kansai. I also received some harsh opinions from the men who responded. Thank you. I’ve come to feel that men really are looking for a relationship with women from a dating club that exists within a fantasy. To keep that fantasy intact, should I apologize to A by saying, “I’m sorry for asking for your address, even if I was only joking”? Or should I do nothing and continue accepting A’s affection as I have been? ※Some responses asked, “Why do you need to know his address?” I asked because I wanted to create a yandere-like impression, so that A wouldn’t suspect I was seeing other men. A likes yandere women—the kind who become emotionally consumed by their devotion to one man. Sorry for rambling, but I’m posting once again to ask for your advice on whether I should apologize to A. m(__)m
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, with an answer as well. > “Should I apologize by saying, ‘I’m sorry for asking for your address, even if I was only joking’?” I feel like apologizing would only make things more complicated. I think it’s best to just leave things as they are. As Mac-san wrote, you might want to try asking for something other than her address. As for getting as far as play… I feel like that would take a considerable amount of talent. (笑)
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. I think it’s best not to touch on anything and for both sides to keep playing along with the fantasy.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. You don’t need to apologize. I think it’s fine to just keep playing along with the “make-believe” as you have been^^;
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