Does being in my late 20s mean I’m no longer in demand, so I’m expected to just stop complaining and have sex with them?
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I’m not saying this applies to everyone, but I feel like many men are impatient with their time.
I fully understand that they’re after my body. But if they just want to have sex right away, they might as well go to a brothel. I keep receiving offers from men who talk about building trust, yet barely exchange greetings before saying, “Let’s go to a hotel now,” and it’s really putting me off.
They tell me that having dinner first would be a waste of time unless we confirm our chemistry beforehand.
My profile says that I’m Type B and want to get to know each other gradually before becoming intimate.
From what I’ve written in my profile, I feel that I’m not compatible with impatient men, so what are they thinking when they approach me with an offer?
I’m a BB7 male member.
“If we don’t confirm our compatibility first, it would be a waste of time even to have dinner.”
→ That’s fundamentally wrong, lol.
Sometimes, even with Type B women, the staff’s comments say things like, “Apparently, she really enjoys H.” In cases like that, there may be some foolish men who get the wrong idea.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
The problem is the man. Even in your 40s, if there’s demand for you, you can afford to be picky.
As expected of you, Mr. Maezawa♪
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
For Dating Type B, that’s awful.
Please keep submitting feedback through the post-date survey, writing something like:
“He barely said hello before telling me we were going to a hotel. I don’t understand what Dating Type B means.”
To be perfectly clear, the man is in the wrong. That kind of behavior is appropriate only for Dating Type D.
(That said, regardless of type, the rule is to start with a meal, so going straight from a brief greeting to a hotel violates the rules for every type. It could even result in forced removal from the club.)
Even among Dating Type C members, I believe many women register because they want to enjoy the entire experience, including the meal. Going to a hotel after barely exchanging greetings is unacceptable.
Could it be that you wrote something like, “I don’t need a meal, so please invite me to a hotel”?
I’m not sure what caused this, so could you contact Maezawa using the form below? I’d like to look into the cause based on your comments and other details.
https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
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I’m Saito♪, a relationship columnist.
It’s unusual for someone with Dating Type B.
A respectable man wouldn’t say, “I need to confirm our compatibility first.”
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> My profile says I’m Type B and that I’d like to get to know someone gradually before starting a relationship.
It’s hard to say without asking the men who made offers, but they may simply be impatient.
You can just turn them down by saying, “It says so in my profile, but…” I don’t think you need to overthink it.
Since you’re receiving offers, why not choose the best men from among them and take it from there?
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
You say you’re Type B, but is it possible you chose B because you were torn between B and C?
If you’re more of a C-type B, I think men are more likely to make offers assuming you have a C-type mindset.
If you only say “after we get to know each other,” many men may take that as meaning you’re open to dating, so you might want to clearly state that you’re cautious about an adult relationship (intimate).
Alternatively, changing to Type A and saying that you’re open to an adult relationship may create a more natural progression.
With Type B, I think there tends to be a bigger gap between what men and women expect.
Also, when you’re in your late twenties, men may assume you’re open to an adult relationship. And unlike when you’re twenty, it can be harder for men to ask what you really think.
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