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Jan 18, 2020 12:24
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While chatting in bed last night with a woman who stayed over, she told me that a man is at his prime between 52 and 55.
At 46 or 47, apparently there’s still too much restless energy left, so you’re not fully mature yet.
At 42, you still look completely green and like a kid.
Hearing her say that made me realize she might have a point. For me, 52 to 55 was indeed the time when I had learned my own limits and started looking around me instead of always looking upward.
Maybe that comes across as kindness and emotional generosity?
By the way, when I said that at 60 I was probably a little past my prime, she told me that there are big individual differences at that age, so I was still fine. What a relief. (汗)
My question is: I imagine there are many women at dating clubs who prefer older men, but is there a particular age range you especially like?
Male respondents can answer based on their imagination too. I’m just offering a topic for discussion.
Incidentally, I’d give this question 60 points.
3 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I’ve heard of women in their early 20s who planned to marry men in their 40s, so there are certainly women who prefer older men.
Apparently, compared with her previous boyfriend, he’s five years younger. Her previous boyfriend was around 50, I suppose…
It’s amazing that he can thrive not only in a dating club, but also in a serious relationship.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I agree—the estimates everyone gave for the age seem about right.
I’ve also asked women, “Don’t you mind older men?”
One woman told me, “If they’re too young, they can be overly aggressive and sometimes disappear after getting what they want. Older men are less likely to do that, and many of them are kind. So, as a woman, I feel more at ease with them.”
She said she wasn’t talking specifically about dating clubs, but about meeting people in general. Still, I thought she might have a point.
Perhaps the way older men don’t try too hard is seen by younger women as the composure that comes with maturity.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member in my late 40s.
I think that age range is spot-on.
I believe men reach their peak in popularity between 52 and 55.