I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I’ve never thought of myself as particularly sexually driven. If someone says, “Not today,” after I’ve taken off their underwear, I’ll quietly help them put it back on. Even when my own desire is strong, I can hold back as much as necessary depending on how the other person feels and what’s going on.
It’s simply that I feel like being intimate once or twice a week. Rather than taking care of that myself, I’d be happy if there were someone who wanted to spend an enjoyable time together.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here, answering as well.
Some men genuinely enjoy spending time together over dinner only, so I don’t think there’s one answer that applies to everyone.
But when people separate the lower half of the body—which is incapable of thinking—and then start talking about personality, I have to wonder whether that really makes sense.
As you can see from products like SIXPAD, even your abdominal muscles contract involuntarily when stimulated by electrical signals. So I don’t think that means they have a separate personality.
If the question is whether a man could resist when a naked woman said, “Go ahead,” then I imagine many men would simply give in.
But asking that question in the first place…
Well, I’m not sure what to say about that.
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I’m Adventure Merchant, a columnist.
Does having a low sex drive make someone a gentleman???
I always thought a gentleman was someone who is kind, understanding, stylish, well-groomed, financially comfortable—and also has a pretty strong sex drive and enjoys sex.
“A gentleman with no sex drive” sounds to me like saying “curry without the roux”... lol.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
As an older guy, I’m always asking myself what it really means to be a gentleman…
Basically, I think the two are separate things. Even if you say, “Don’t get it up!” it still does, and even if you say, “Go soft!” it won’t（笑）
I’d say I have a fairly strong sex drive.
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