After coming home heartbroken because the woman I was seeing treated me so thoughtlessly, my wife, knowing nothing, welcomed me warmly as she always does. In that moment, I suddenly felt incredibly fond of her.
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Ironically, being treated so poorly by the woman I was seeing made me realize once again how wonderful my wife is—she loves me unconditionally, no matter what—and I’ve decided to leave Universe.
Thank you all for your support over the years. This isn’t really a question, but I wanted to take this opportunity to express my gratitude for everything.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I’m glad you were able to reaffirm what’s so wonderful about your wife.
Usually, people recognize their wife’s qualities while also seeking something separate from that…
If Universe was able to contribute in that way as well, I’m glad to hear it.
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This is Saito, the columnist♪
That’s right. I’m the same way—without something to compare it to, it’s hard to understand the truth of a situation.
There’s something profound about the strength of a wife who has made a lifelong commitment.
You’ll have more money and time from here on, so once things settle down, please come back to Universe.
A lot of new members have joined again, too.
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I’m Adventure Merchant, a columnist.
What a wonderful realization—and congratulations on leaving the site! ☆
It really made me think about how men often can’t recognize the truth unless they see things in relative terms.
In my case, I kept thinking, “Ah, I was actually forcing myself to make it work,” whenever a new comparison came along:
My wife from my previous marriage compared with the woman I later lived with;
that woman compared with Woman A, whom I met through a dating club;
and Woman A compared with Woman B, whom I also met through a dating club.
Basically, I’m aware that when I start liking someone, I tend to spoil her too much—or get too deeply involved—and lose sight of everything else...
I’m reflecting on that every day while continuing to look for meaningful encounters.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Every family situation is different, so it’s hard to say for sure, but I do think my wife has probably noticed as well.
If she can keep quiet about it, it may be better that way, since it helps keep the necessary expenses down…
I don’t think your wife will retaliate, but perhaps you could use the money you save to buy her something she wants or take her to a hot spring.
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Meg, a female member here.
Home sweet home♪
She’s truly a wonderful wife who accepts you just as you are. From now on, please cherish her even more than you have before.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I feel the same way whenever I come home after being dumped. I really understand how you feel.
Although, it took me way too long to realize how wonderful and kind my wife is（笑）
If you ever feel like it, you’re always welcome to come back ^_^
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