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Jan 18, 2020 05:15
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I’m a B-type specialist who has met around ten C-type women and has offered almost exclusively to B-types otherwise. All of them were platinum or higher, and thankfully, I was never rejected; I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with almost all of them. At the moment, I’m only continuing with my two favorites.
Before getting to my question, here are my impressions of the women I’ve met, by type.
・C-type women
Without exception, they were very experienced. Platinum-and-above C-types seemed to fall into one of two groups: either they were popular and already had a small, select group of generous (well-paying) men, so they had plenty of leeway and would casually cut men off, or they were energetic women who would keep actively messaging me even while seeing more than ten men at once. I was surprised that some of them were making around ¥1 million a month.
When pressed, many of them didn’t try very hard to hide their relationships with other men and were quite open about it. They acted refined, but you could tell they were all outgoing. Without exception, they quickly became aroused and vocal during intimacy. They also had no resistance to using toys.
And as soon as I hinted at a monthly arrangement, they were eager to take me up on it.
・B-type women
Many of them weren’t seriously trying to make money through the club; earning around ¥50,000–¥200,000 a month was enough for them. In other words, they generally wanted to see a man only two or three times a month and prioritize their private lives. During intimacy, they tended to be passive, or it was obvious they were trying hard to act enthusiastic. Toys were completely out of the question.
They were also cautious about a monthly arrangement. My impression was that many felt it would be too much of a burden to make it obligatory, and that they didn’t like not knowing what might be expected of them.
My question is for any B-type women who might be reading this.
To begin with, I feel that if most women had enough money, they wouldn’t particularly want to be intimate with an older man they had only recently met. That might be different if they genuinely enjoyed sex or were looking for connections.
So if a woman had a stable, good papa (a male supporter) and could consistently reach her target amount, would she start thinking, “I already have that papa, so I don’t need to work so hard”? Would she become even a little more guarded physically when receiving new offers?
I have a favorite B-type woman, but her requested allowance is modest. She has many things she wants to do, such as studying abroad, so she seems to need money, but she says that accepting an excessive amount, even in exchange for intimacy, would make her feel apologetic because it would be more than she deserves. Apparently, a monthly arrangement is completely out of the question. She says she has two other papas (male supporters) she’s still seeing, but one only takes her out to dinner and the other doesn’t invite her out, so it seems she isn’t earning much from them.
I don’t want her to force herself to become intimate with new or other men for money, so even when she refuses, I insist on giving her more than she asks for. In the end, she accepts it and looks happy and fulfilled, so I wonder if it’s okay.
If it would make her more guarded physically and focus on me alone emotionally, and if it would ease her emotional burden even a little, then I’d like to continue supporting her even more generously.
After joining the club, I realized that I’d worked hard all this time to be considerate toward young, inexperienced women while still being able to push my way in without hesitation. It makes me sound like I’m pretending to be a good person, which is kind of gross, haha.
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Rather than changing my type because I was struggling to get offers, a certain man told me, “The staff comments say you’re a Type B who’s extremely close to a Type A.”
> I got pretty angry and changed it, thinking, “There’s no way that’s true! I’m a Type C wearing a Type B disguise!! Don’t underestimate me!”—something like that.
Around last November, I saw a post in the question box saying that she wasn’t getting many offers, so I checked her profile and was surprised to see that.
But it didn’t seem to match what Mac had written, so I featured her with the title:
“She leans more toward Type C when treated gently.”
I’m sorry about that. I don’t know whether that helped or whether changing her photos did, but I’m glad she ended up getting offers.
By the way, even after she changed to Type C, the staff comments remained unchanged.
I’d like to say, “They’ve written things like this about other women too,” but although the comments are generally written in a recommendatory way, there are also lines that make you think, “If they write this, she’s not going to get any offers.”
There’s a dilemma, since men aren’t allowed to tell women what’s written in their profiles, so I can’t exactly reveal it myself... lol
If she withdraws completely, she’ll lose the ability to answer questions, so I sometimes think it might be better to suspend her account instead. Whether she suspends or closes it, she disappears from the women’s listings.
I also feel that the questioner may have a somewhat biased image of Type C. But if she happened to make offers only to women like that, I can understand why she would feel that way.
P.S. Being featured only makes men think, “Hmm, I wonder what she’s like?” It won’t lead to an offer unless the woman herself is actually appealing. It merely serves as a trigger.
There are also women who don’t receive offers even after being featured.
I believe she was genuinely appealing.
That said, in this case, her profile said she was almost entirely Type A, so writing that she was closer to Type C if treated gently may have made men wonder which one she really was.
Even though she was appealing, it’s highly possible that men thought there was no point in making an offer if she was Type A. So perhaps that was just a matter of timing...
It felt like a perfect example of how someone can be appealing yet end up being misunderstood during the interview ><
Of course, it was only because of the answer here that we learned she probably wasn’t Type A, so there may be other women in the same situation.
Other
I’m the columnist “Adventure Merchant.”
It probably depends on the type of relationship, but I think it also varies according to what the woman is looking for in a dating club.
Since this is a dating club, money is naturally involved. But there seems to be a major difference between:
- Money being the top priority, with feelings added as a bonus,
and
- Feelings being the top priority, with money added as a bonus.
From a man’s perspective, if he simply wants a relationship where he can enjoy sex, he should look for a woman with the former values. If he wants a relationship where he might even consider getting married under the right circumstances, he should seek out a woman with the latter values.
I imagine many men have multiple dating partners and adjust between these two approaches depending on the woman.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Women in the B category receive so many offers that they can’t possibly accept them all.
It’s rude to ask a B-category woman how much she wants—let alone bring up other women.
If you give her the allowance properly, she’ll be happy.
If you want someone exclusive, your only option is to pursue an A-category woman, who receives very few offers.
Meg
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
That question was so long!
Ah, sorry—that was just my inner voice coming out.
Please forgive me.
P.S. Romane,
I hope you’ll continue answering questions here. Mac will surely miss you if we can no longer enjoy your signature Romane style.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m date◎yume, a male member.
This has been on my mind, so I’ll share my experience, regardless of dating type…
Regardless of their relationship type, women registered on the site understandably want to receive as much support as possible.
However, when they already have someone they’re seeing and want to continue with someone they’re genuinely satisfied with, they may accept offers but ultimately not enter into a relationship. Even if the allowance isn’t particularly high, they seem inclined to continue seeing the person they’re currently with.
In that sense, I’m starting to feel that men are competing too.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Seattle, a columnist.
I think you’re doing just fine as you are. If you have any interesting experiences, please write a column about them.
I also have a few type-B arrangements with generous allowances.