Once you start seeing someone, how many dates would you ideally wait before moving on to an adult relationship (intimate)?
Personal experiences are welcome too!
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
With Type B arrangements, it’s supposed to be from the second meeting onward, but I think the second meeting is ideal. If it happens from the very first meeting, I’d wonder why it’s Type B rather than Type C.
With Type C, many men expect it from the first meeting, so ideally it would happen on day one. However, the expected likelihood is 50%, so there’s absolutely no problem if one out of two people doesn’t enter into an adult relationship that day.
With Type A, I think it’s normal not to enter into an adult relationship, no matter how many times you meet.
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I’m a male member in Seattle.
Type A: I won’t make the first move.
Type B: By the second meeting, I’d like you to decide one way or the other.
Types C and D: I’d like you to decide one way or the other at the first meeting.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
- Type C: the first meeting
- Type B, leaning toward C: meetings 1–2
- Type B, leaning toward A: meetings 7–10
(I don’t count the first three or four meetings as unnecessary; they’re needed to ease her wariness.)
- Type A: meetings 3–6
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I think many men consider it ideal for a C-type woman to move into an adult relationship (intimate) at the first meeting, or for a B-type woman to do so by the second or third meeting.
For reference, the B-type woman I’m currently seeing regularly, who has already left the club, didn’t move into an adult relationship until our fifth or sixth meeting.
Another B-type woman, also no longer with the club, has become nothing more than a drinking buddy—no allowance and no adult relationship.
I can only speak from my own experience, but I feel B-type women vary widely. On the other hand, every C-type woman I’ve met moved into an adult relationship from the very first meeting.
Personally, though, I don’t think an adult relationship is the goal. I see it as just the beginning.
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