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Jan 16, 2020 01:02
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here—I’ll answer as well.
> “You’re amazing. You must have a lot of competition. No wonder you’re so popular.”
I don’t know what was said before and after that, so I may be off, but he could have meant:
“Since she seems to have so many other options, I guess I have no choice but to give up.”
A lot of men prefer women who focus only on them. It doesn’t necessarily have to be true, but at least it should appear that way on the surface…
That said, if he’s giving up because he thinks there’s a lot of competition, then he’d probably be interested in seeing you if there weren’t.
So I think you should just contact him normally.
You could use the actual message Mac-san wrote earlier and send it with a little extra added to it.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
Sorry, this isn’t an answer to the person who posted the question.
To Papuwa:
“How were you raised to become such an amazing woman?” is absolutely a compliment.
I often read your answers, and I find myself thinking the same thing, even though we’ve never met.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikoki, a male member.
I agree with what Adventure Merchant wrote.
At this point, he may be thinking that it wouldn’t really matter if you didn’t meet again, so I’d suggest sending him a LINE message soon to keep the connection going.
Since you’ve exchanged LINE contacts, there’s still a chance. Men are really happy when a woman adds a thoughtful comment instead of sending just a one-word message.
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
When someone says, “You’re amazing. You must have a lot of competition—you’re bound to be popular,” it’s proof that he’s also seeing lots of other women, so I get the feeling he’s usually passive.
I think it’s perfectly fine to simply ask:
“Would you like to meet sometime?”
“Do you have any free days next month?”
Other
I’m Adventure Merchant, a columnist.
I’m a man, and there was a time when I went about a month without contacting a woman I’d had a wonderful date with. It happened to be around the Christmas and New Year holidays, so she sent me messages saying “Merry Christmas” and “Happy New Year,” but I didn’t reply.
The reason was very simple: I had another favorite woman I liked even more, and I was completely absorbed in her.
Later, I started feeling that things weren’t going to work out with the woman I’d been so into, and that relationship came to an end. As a result, the other woman naturally moved up the waiting list, so I contacted her again. We now see each other regularly.
For me, rather than dating a large number of women, I’m most comfortable limiting things to no more than three partners. That inevitably means some women end up waiting their turn.
I don’t intentionally do this, but when a woman tells me things like “I want to see you” or “I’m lonely” without being pushy, even though I haven’t contacted her, it gives me an indication of how interested she is in me.
When I meet and start seeing women like that again, they usually choose to focus exclusively on me, which makes me very happy.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member from Seattle.
Fran’s answer says it all. Papuwa’s answer had me laughing first thing in the morning.
When I have overlapping dates, I don’t reach out first—I prioritize women who contact me and respond quickly.
The male member may be popular too. If you have some free time, try contacting him once. If his response is poor, move on to the next one.