A question for club members.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. > Either they can’t stand shallow women who succeed or live luxuriously just by selling their bodies without making any effort, or they simply have a virgin-obsessed mindset. I don’t think anyone can succeed or live a luxurious lifestyle without making any effort. I agree with momo-san on this point. As far as I know, they actually work quite steadily and diligently. They say, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Perhaps the only women you happened to meet were the kind you perceived that way.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. At first, I thought the first half was leading up to you continuing to play the role of an unpleasant man, but the latter part— “Dinner only is fine, and we can see each other without any awkwardness or emotional stress.” —makes you sound like a savior to women who are relationship Type A. I’m sure they’ve been waiting for a man who’s happy with dinner only. That said, I don’t think you need to worry about what kind of men are making offers. Very few men make offers in the first place, and among those who do, some will persistently bring up an adult relationship (intimate) even with a Type A woman, leading to complaints. When you look at it that way, there are very few men who can be satisfied with dates alone, so I don’t think you need to worry about the other men at all.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If I were you, I think you’d enjoy Type A—along with several times more worries, difficulties, excitement, fun, and all kinds of unexpected situations than with the other types. Unlike Type B, Type A offers far fewer opportunities, so you don’t have to worry about competing with anyone else. The girl may also focus solely on you—sometimes intensely enough to feel a little heavy—which can be nice. Their stance is also very clear, so compared with Type B, there’s less confusion and less wasted effort for both sides. Another characteristic of Type A is that many girls are looking for just one man. It seems they choose Type A knowing they’ll receive fewer offers. I’d recommend it to men who want that kind of relationship. The only time I’ve ever been casually turned down by a girl because our stances didn’t match was with a Type A girl. If you continue with a Type A girl, you may both end up taking a break from the club for a while. Wouldn’t that be exactly the kind of world you’re looking for? Personally, I think young, attractive men should take on Type A while they still have the adventurous spirit to do so. Types C and D will still be available when you’re older, but starting with Type A later in life may mean missing the chance to enjoy those encounters. The higher the mountain, the steeper the cliff, and the more reckless the challenge, the more tempting it is to take on. Since ordinary dating doesn’t come with an adult relationship (intimate) promised from the start, those who feel that this is the more natural approach may find Type A worth pursuing.

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. If it’s going to wear you down like that, won’t you eventually start thinking things like, “She’s taking advantage of me—she just gets her allowance for dinner only,” or, “She keeps asking for more even though she doesn’t make any effort to agree to an adult relationship”? ^^ Either way, I’m worried about you… I may be wrong, but it feels like you’re expecting too much from the other person.

I’m in my late 40s and based in Seattle. On the days between my adult relationships, I have dinner with a Type A virgin. The woman I’ve been seeing regularly is great at conversation, so even dinner only is enjoyable. She’s cute enough to be an idol just to look at—in fact, she used to be one.