Do you cut loose women who are starting to look worse?
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I'm unsure what to do with a girl who's past 27 and apparently has had her metabolism change, making her increasingly look rather unappealing.
(She's become a fuck buddy with no allowance, so I'm debating whether to keep her around. The relationship itself, of course, involves various costs.)
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I feel the way this was written is a little ungentlemanly, but if you think it’s difficult to continue seeing him, you can simply end things. If you still want to continue, then keep seeing him.
I don’t think there’s any need to worry about what other people are doing.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
I don’t think 27 is “past her prime” at all, but if that’s how you feel, maybe it’s simply time to move on.
Even if you keep her around, once you meet someone else you find more attractive, you’ll start feeling that spending time with her is a waste. Personally, I’d end things as soon as I stopped enjoying them.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I feel like saying, “In the name of the moon, I’ll punish you!!” (For reference, that’s a line from Sailor Moon, which came before Pretty Cure.)
When people talk about “decline” or “becoming unattractive,” are they referring only to appearance, or to one’s inner qualities as well?
I’m over 40. I’ve already lost to younger women based on age alone, haven’t I? (*_*)
Well, even if my personality is good, it’s unlikely that the person asking this question would ever make me an offer anyway.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Ending a relationship can be difficult and complicated.
Everyone’s circumstances are different, so I guess there’s no one-size-fits-all script.
This is a dating club, after all.
Since it began with meeting for the first time and saying, “I look forward to seeing you,”
I’d like to face her one last time and say, “Goodbye.”
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
* Mac, thanks again for bringing out your “gap-filling stick,” lol.
* For more on the “gap-filling stick,” please see my column.
As some of the other respondents have already mentioned, why not lower the cost and continue the relationship? Covering meals and hotel expenses seems reasonable, though.
Rather than “cutting her off,” I think it can actually be quite enjoyable to watch her life unfold—seeing her get a new boyfriend, coming to you for relationship advice, and eventually telling you she’s getting married.
My next column is about exactly that: going from a relationship with an allowance to one without, becoming friends, and eventually seeing her get married. Please take a look if you’re interested.
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It might be different if you have something appealing besides your body, but if it’s causing you distress, I think it’s best not to force yourself.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It sounds like the attraction may be fading.
If you’re no longer incurring various costs, then there’s no allowance involved either, so it may be perfectly fine to continue the good relationship.
If you feel it would be a waste to let it go, perhaps you could look for someone with whom you feel more at ease and compatible.
Also, whether you continue with her or look for someone new may depend on whose satisfaction you prioritize when it comes to physical compatibility—the man’s, the woman’s, or the woman’s gradual development.
Since your current relationship involves no allowance, you may also be able to enjoy seeing how she naturally develops and changes over time. I think you should make the decision based on your own feelings.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
If she’s seeing someone else, I say goodbye as soon as I start feeling this way. As the questioner said, it’s a waste of money and time—and I can always find someone new later.
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